Found out girlfriend of three years has never really enjoyed our sex together. She has orgasms, but no drive and rationalized not enjoying it by saying she doesn't like losing control of her body.
What do, I don't think it's my performance.
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>>18613165
Cuddling. You can cuddle without sex.
Magic wand.
Stop taking birth controll and ssri pills.
Improve her diet. She has to eat fats to produce hormones.
Make her do sport.
Make her fap to gay porn.
Eat her pussy.
Or give up and or find new gf.
>>18613165
just get a new one
ive been there. shes lying about the cause, and it will only get worse with time. cut your losses, and find someone that actually wants to fuck you
All good advice
>>18613165
>she doesn't like losing control of her body.
Why don't you believe that? Many people, male and female (though mainly female) are frightened by "losing control" or letting their emotions or physical responses drive them. They fear that some unnamed and unknown terrible thing will happen.
The solution is to make the whole romantic and sexual setting so reassuring and safe that they are willing to take that risk and let go. (They will then discover, of course, that the thing they feared isn't there, but they have to find that out for themselves.)
>>18613165
is she a gook?
sounds like a manipulative psychopath anyways. dump that shit.
>>18614407
That's a good idea. I'll start there
>>18614413
Nah, Scandinavian
I don't think she's malicious enough for manipulation