How to not live the slug life

>>18612644
You and me both, every day I fight the urge to commit assisted suicide by doing something stupid that gets me out of the daily bullshit rut. I'm so fucking tired with life.

Not sure of your age OP but I'm 28 and recently discovered nofap.
Since doing this challenge, my mood has lifted considerably, self esteem is already notably on the rise and feel less 'jittery' when talking or less anxiety when socialising. Give it a go/?

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>>18612703
Would nofap work for a girl?

>>18612703
Not op, but is it really that good? Fapping seems like the only fun thing i can do. I always thought no-fap was just a placebo. But i really need to get my shit together and get more energy because every day i do absolutely fucking nothing except stare at the wall or out of my balcony, thinking how i should save up money, stop smoking weed, start jogging, get my drivers license and get a job (im on welfare) but never any idea becomes practice. I just keep doing the same useless shit every day.

>>18612709
If you're a girl, you don't need any help. You're already on easy-mode, enjoy!

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>>18612758
Stick it up your fugly ass. Easy-mode has nothing to do with what I want to do--I don't even want to date anyone.

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>>18612644

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>>18612758

Are you honestly so vapid that you genuinely believe having a vagina is the solution to all of life's problems?

Also, in what universe do you think being able to have casual sex with gross weirdos who don't give a shit about you any time is supposed to be some kind of cool, positive perk to being a woman?

>>18612914
He's sort of right in the bigger picture, but that usually applies only to ingenuine gold diggers (which includes any women trying to trap a man for security) and/or qts--not all girls are qts, some are totally overlooked. It's like those memers don't even know what reality is.

>>18612930

>He's sort of right in the bigger picture, but that usually applies only to ingenuine gold diggers

I'm confused as to how referring to a specific kind of woman with a specific kind of mindset is considered "the bigger picture". If we can safely assume that your average woman wants the same thing your average man wants; a healthy relationship with someone who loves and respects them wouldn't their experience be considered "the bigger picture" and not the experiences of a small minority of ultra attractive women who utilize attractiveness as their main source of income?

>>18612748
Dont believe these retarded faggots. Nofap only works if you can actually get real pussy to keep your mind off porn. Simply trying to willpower your way out of an addiction doesnt work, you actually need some other form of distraction to keep your mind off it and usually sex thoughts can pop up at any time, so actually having a gf or fuck buddy is the true way to no fap. Not looking at some tits and trying to mentally fight yourself that you dont want to beat off to them. Considering you're doing an Oasis in the desert type of deal to your body, the chances are high for relapse. I was miserable on no fap not cause of no porn, but because my libido was so pent up that even a chick being close to me gave me a raging hard on, if she was showing any amount of skin then I'd probably start pre cumming. No thanks. I like my dick to not get rock hard with very bitch I see.

All this because you wont do a hobby? Just do the thing. You know the excuses are bullshit, you know what to do, just do it, it's not that hard.

People have come to expect self-help voodoo, as if they can hypnotise themselves into doing something. But a lot of self-help involves being an adult and "getting a grip".

>>18612969
He's saying that women are usually coddled in life so hard mode for a female is bullshit. Women cant have hard lives due to niggas willing to throw away his very dignity to serve her, so as such. Your problems are nothing compared to a male going through the same thing.

>>18613000

>He's saying that women are usually coddled in life so hard mode for a female is bullshit.

None of what you just said is true. I feel like anyone with even a modicum of life experience or wisdom also knows that isn't true.

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>>18613000
Your perception of a hard life is imaginary. Abusive, loveless relationships that some feel compelled to stay in. The wears of time--the fact that many husbands grow to detest their wives once they lose their cuteness, and how 4chan's conception of female privilege genuinely fades away after a certain age. Having to work...yes, almost as much females as males work, and then a lot of them are still expected to do most of the housework. Not sure where you got this vision of feminine luxury from.

>>18612644
>OP wants to work harder after living a life not unlike a male robot's
>no interest in relationship
>4chan passively aggressively brings up female romance privilege in a faux attempt to convince op that it's fine
poetry

I started fixing my life couple of years ago, and with more ups than downs for a change I now have a pretty good life. Which is nothing like me and it hurts. I wanted to walk away today, even when there is nobody at home to walk away from. It's the pill I have to swallow to overcome the weaknesses and allow myself a future. The process is the same: self improvement. It's just that each goal is more difficult and I think I've recently come to the point where I am reaching my natural limit: I "healed", and now comes the part where I get to maintain what I've fixed. I've commited to this relationship with myself and at this moment there is no place in it for anybody else. Success frightens me, though I must not allow myself any other alternative, knowing how it was, even though I was comfy in my problematic past. It's so fucking weird and I relate. It's a lonely road facing long forgotten demons that torment you when you don't give in, and are motivated to live like the normal people, who might not be able to relate to your dark side, and wear you down with their superficiality. But what do you know? Plenty of people walked the same path, and if I could meet you, maybe we'd underestimate each other knowing the work we've done for ourselves can't be valued by anyone. Only you can, as long as only you know your struggle. Be more vulnerable, you've faced more than that, maybe you can handle this too.