Uncertain of if I should reach out or not - Advice needed

>>18610178

She told me three times throughout the course of our breakup messages that she wants me in her life as a friend. She said she'd understand if I needed space and time or if I never wanted to talk to her again, although it would make her sad.

So I'm at a weird position right now. Since the breakup, she left across the country for 2 weeks for her job training. About 3 days in, she messaged me on snapchat and apologize for us not talking, and said she was busy. We occasionally would correspond, and she would ask be how things were going.

But since she's back home now, she has only really reached out to me once. Basically just a "What's up?" type message on snapchat. She hasn't messaged me on steam or asked if I wanted to play any games or talk on discord, which is something she usually did every day when we were together and even a bit before we dated. She's still online in the evenings after work, but she usually isn't doing anything.

Keep in mind, in 90% of our interactions, she reached out to me first. I would rarely message her first to see if she wanted to do anything. I just generally have an aversion to doing this, as I feel people might be busy. She has also asked me why I never message her first, and told me that she's sometimes uncertain about doing it first. She generally has history of not reaching out to people or having long hiatuses from talking.

My question is, what could this silence mean? Is she genuinely not interested in being friends? Or could it be her wanting space? Or perhaps being uncertain of messaging me first? Am I reading too far into the situation?

Let me know if there's anything that needs to be clarified.

>>18610181
bump

>>18610251
bump

>>18610181
I would ask her myself, anon. She'd be the person who'd know best.