Neckbeard Insecurities

stop worrying about being a "normie". just do what you want and what gets you to where you want to go.

>>18609229
im a very anxious person who self hating so this is hard.

Tbh its hard to tell what aspects of me are shit i want, and shit i want to feel validated.

How do i get rid of this desire to be a normie?

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>>18609213
You are a narcissist.
Nobody gives a fuck about your public image. Drugs don't make you interesting to be around and the party lifestyle is only fulfilling if you genuinely enjoy it. Stop being an arrogant prick.

>>18609258
>You are a narcissist.
How?
Dude if anything i hate myself and realize i need improve myself 10x fold to be considered good

>>18609260
>"huge insecurity about being neckbeard loser"
>has friends and girlfriends
>still isn't good enough

Normal people don't act like this. You need to get over yourself. Let go of the past and start living a healthier lifestyle. Be more open and less averse toward others.

>>18609285
How do I do this ?

>>18609213
bump i need help plz

honestly without this insecurity im not really sure what i should do.

>>18609213
last bump ; ~;

>>18609328
weight -> eat below maintenance and lift. no this doesn't turn you into a bodybuilder or make you look like a rick piarra juicehead, it sheds weight faster than light cardio and atkins or whatever the fuck

mental -> stop worrying about your public image and status because that is entirely out of your control

Find meaningful work to do. This is how you burn anxiety and build self esteem. Do volunteer work, tutor, something.

Spend more time with your friends.

>>18609451
weight thing i plan to do

mental is kinda hard, i used to not care about my public image and was essentially a neckbeard as a kid (played games all day, missed school/assignments for games, smelly and unkempt, made me fat to this day)

How do you spend time with friends. i can't think of things to do with them.

>>18609459
Just be willing to ask if they want to hang out with you or if you can join whatever group thing they might be doing.

>>18609505
most of them aren't doing anything other than play vidya. alone or sometimes together

I want to become more of a normie. Get out and party and meet girls. Its weird to say but i guess thats a dumb thing to want/do?