ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

>>18608903
Girls

were you curious of cocks/the male body during your early puberty years (age 12-14)?

if you were, what did you do?

How often do women fart with the vaggoos

Girls

Were you ever caught masturbating? What was the reaction from both sides?

>>18608909
No, nothing.

>>18608911
Sometimes when having sex, and sometimes after being in weird positions (had to be careful in pilates classes)

>>18608911
Happened to me twice in my life.
The 2nd time, I laughed so hard I nearly fainted.

>>18608937
How does air get in there by doing weird positions?
Thanks to your post, I'll be listening for vagina farts on pilates and yoga classes.

>>18608903
Girls

i'm sure you can agree that there's an imbalance in the difficulty of getting someone to have sex with, depending on the gender.

question is: if the world was the other way around regarding that (i.e. most prostitutes are male), would you pay for sex?

>hot girls are dumb
>dumb girls are hot
Which one is correct?

>>18608960
I don't agree that sentiment is so extreme that it's common for men to pay for sex, so no, I wouldn't. Most guys I know don't really have that much trouble getting sex if they want it, and neither do most girls.

The key is 'if they want it' though, most people I know aren't into casual sex. Those who are don't have much problem with getting it.

>>18608937
>>18608940
Thanks, it just seems so weird to me, it makes sense that it is uncommon.

>>18608966

I assume you are asking men. None is true. He thing is that we tolerate way more stupidity from hot girls, so they can be more outwardly dumb.

It's not that dumb is hot for us.

>>18608960
Most women can't orgasm from penetration. Most women prefer to have sex in a relationship since ONS have a rate of less than 20% orgasming. You can look it up. In a relationship the men are much more willing to put in the effort to satisfy their women

>>18608960
No.
I don't miss sex even when I'm single for extended periods of time. I crave sex when I'm in a relationship, but otherwise it's whatever to me.

>>18608921
Twice, by my boyfriend. He just laughed, apologised and looked at me till I finished. Then we fucked.

>>18608982
That isn't normal though. Most women masturbate outside of a relationship. What about you?

>>18608991
I masturbate, even when I'm in a relationship. I like orgasms just as much as everyone else. But I don't miss sex if I'm not having it.

>>18608996
Ohk. Makes sense

>>18608988
Lol. I was hoping stories involving parents. Bfs will understand I guess?

>>18608903
Me and my ex girlfriend had a pretty rough split. Mostly my fault. I've accepted that and moved on and don't plan on making the same mistakes with whoever I end up with in the future. But anyway, when we split, she blocked me on everything and was pretty clear in saying she wanted nothing to do with me.
However, around a month ago I stumbled across her Facebook page randomly, meaning she actually unblocked me. Quickly checked other social media, and she'd unblocked me there too. Right after I noticed that, her best friend (who has never spoken to me, never interacted with me, and has openly disliked me since we met years ago) started liking everything I put up on social media, but who knows if that means anything at all I just thought it was interesting enough as context.

Anyway, that's culminated in my ex messaging me in the middle of the night asking if I'm doing okay.
Do I respond? This girl was my best friend and I loved her but I messed up and got my heart broken. I was really down for a long time but I've managed to get back up and I've been great for a while now. I don't know what she could possibly want, and I don't know if it's in my best interests to respond. I never expected to have to make this decision so I never prepared for it.

Also, we split a year ago and last spoke in November although this was a very brief conversation in which she was not happy with me.

>>18609047
I caught my dad fapping a thousand times (even this morning) but he never caught me. I think.

>>18609058
Lol. Howd you catch him so many times? Does he masturbate over you or something? Also how come Ive never heard any story of moms caught schlicking

>>18609072
No, he's not fapping to me. Gross.
He's just retarded. He faps in the bathroom next to my room with porn on speakers, he doesn't close the browser window when I walk in, he leaves porn on his phone and then calls me to show me something. He doesn't lock doors ever or faps in the living room.
He's just not a sneaky fapper.

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Girls, have you ever closely identified with an anime/cartoon/video game character? Which one and how?

>>18609082
What the fuck dad

>>18609082
Lmao. Is your dad retarded? Does he have any concept of shame

>>18609082
Does your dad affect your opinion about men? Does he make us all look like just a bunch of penises wanting to fap?

Pro-tip: that's exactly what we are.

>>18609119
Maybe you are. I'm a sophisticated Human bean. Fapping is a bonus.

>>18609107
He doesn't give half a shit.

But it's cool, I don't get offended.

>>18609119
I got myself a boyfriend who doesn't really fap, doesn't like porn and faps to pics of my ass only.
I mostly don't give a shit, tho.

>>18609132
And what do you schlick to? Your imagination?

For both men and women, picture this situation:

>You're on a night out
>You approach someone you like the look of and have a conversation with
>They leave without swapping numbers
>About a month later or whenever they approach you in public

What would you do? Would you even remember who they are? Do you have a case of beer goggles?

>>18609135
Porn, erotica, videos of my boyfriend fapping, recordings of him talking dirty to me.

>>18609132
P U S S Y W H I P P E D !
Was he always like that or did you train him?

guys, what do you consider flirting? I'm always paranoid of making someone believe I'm interested when I'm not, even if it's unlikely
one time I put my hand on another dude's shoulder as in a form of acknowledgement and I think he took it the wrong way. probably won't do that again

>>18609153
Do not touch the opposite gender
Do not compliment the opposite gender more than once a month
Do not make long eye contacts with the opposite gender while smiling

There you go.

>>18609153
Everything from a cute look or longer leisurely talk onward.

>>18609162
>Do not touch the opposite gender

It's the biggest myth that a woman touching a man on the arm is a sure fire sign of interest. Obviously she'll still do that if she likes the guy, but I've had plenty of female friends who were just friends who would do that with me.

It's no different from when a man pats another man on the back. It's just their way of showing that they're cool with you.

Where do you apply deodorants? State your gender.

>>18609169
That it is not a sure fire way doesn't matter, it might be a sign of interest and that is often all that is needed to in terms of a signal.

>>18609172
Usually nowhere. Male.

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>>18608903
I'm a guy and I'd like to be in a relationship but I have no interest in anything sexual, not sure if I'm ace or what but I just find other types of human interaction to be more interesting. I'm sure they're are women out their that are the same way but I have yet to find any. The ones I have told this acted like I'm weird, not that I really care I'm pretty happy with my life. If I were to find someone like me could we even pursue a relationship or would it never work out? Just looking for someone else's perspective.

>>18609169
If done often it can make the man think she's interested. Especially if the guy is interested in the girl. Men don't really touch each other as often so it's definitely an abnormality and can be interpreted as a sign of interest.

>>18609197
Most women want a satisfying sexual relationship nowadays. You have to thank feminism for that. But we do get a lot of posts like yours from women too. Pretty sure there is an asexual dating site too so you can start there

>>18609146
Always like that.
He has a super low sex drive and dislikes porn. Masturbated once every other month before we met, now once every other year. We fuck daily or so, tho.

Someone explain girls who hang around with loads of gay men to me. What's their endgame?

>>18609266
Gay men are better looking and much more charming

>>18609266
No sexual tension and they just genuinely want to just be friends, not just work their way in and fuck. Also gossiping. Gay guys really are just like women but with dicks.

>>18609286
this is the correct answer, you have no idea how many men quickly pass by when you're only interested in a friendly relationship.

>>18609282
No
>>18609286
Yes

>>18608903
Men, do you still think about your first love?

>>18609292
Only if I'm reflecting on all my past relationships. Otherwise, she never even pops into my head for a second..

>>18609153
>guys, what do you consider flirting?
Depends ENTIRELY on the guy. This is a cultural and personal social development thing. Personality also factors in. If the dude comes from an upbringing that is high in personal contact, he's less liable to see personal contact as significant.

If he's a forever alone who's only point of contact with the opposite gender was when his mom hugged him when he was 6, he might get his signals crossed.

If he comes from a conservative society where personal contact is limited, he might get his signals mixed.

If he's just horny as fuck and WANTS to believe that you're in to him, he might get his signals mixed.

If he himself is a flirty individual who does not believe flirting is much besides a mode of communication, then he's liable to see flirting as significant to begin with.

Don't freak out overthinking this shit. Guys will think what guys think. Their own mental views of the situation will always skew their interpretations of situations, and there's nothing you can do about what's going on in their heads.

True story: Last Saturday went to dinner for one of GF's friends bday. One of the girls there was apparently giving me mad stares all night (according to my gf). I didn't really notice anything until the SECOND TIME she started trying to play footsie with me. The context of the situation (I'm next to my girlfriend, girl doesn't look like she's the type to screw around, I'm not the type to screw around) made it so I'm just automatically predisposed towards not finding things like that significant.


>>18609266
>Someone explain girls who hang around with loads of gay men to me. What's their endgame?

Friendship.
Possible male deterrence (because guys can be aggro as fuck sometimes. Even outside of bars)
A different point of view.
Gay BFF meme.

Source:
A dude who's best friend is a gay female.
Who grew up with someone that came out as gay
Whose girlfriend has two gay bff's.

>>18609311
>because guys can be aggro as fuck sometimes
Kek at most gay guys do an IRL reeeeee and whip their wrists around like the chicks on THe View. I wish I was kidding too but I see it all the time, they're about as threatening as a kitten attacking a ball of yarn.

>gay female
I'll concede that lesbians is when shit gets real. They can be irrational and extremely violent for sure.

>>18609139
>Would you even remember who they are?
I probably won't remember. But I also am fucking terrible with names, and people in general.

>What would you do?
I probably say hey, what's up, and politely talk to you while I try to remember who you are.

>Do you have a case of beer goggles?
I don't go so drunk every night that I brown/black out events. In fact it's only ever happened once in my life. I think you have a massive misunderstanding/high skewed view of what alcohol does to people/how they consume it? Not every night is a get smashed pub crawl night.


Instead of wasting your time on here, just fucking talk to her.


>>18609292
>Men, do you still think about your first love?

If i'm specifically thinking about my past/past relationships, sure.
Otherwise, no.
>>18609335
>Kek at most gay guys do an IRL reeeeee and whip their wrists around like the chicks on THe View.

Not talking about being there for the muscle. Talking about just having a "beard" around.

The beard doesn't keep the "alpha" frat boys off--not much will-- but it keeps the awkward forever alones who will only ever approach girls when they're alone or in pairs.

>>18609335
If you look up domestic violence stats (real ones) lesbian relationships have the highest rates by orders of magnitude, and gay men have the lowest rates.

Really makes you think

>>18609366
Curiously lesbian and bisexual women relationships have the highest (the lesbian being the abuser), with lesbians ones in a very close second. It's bizarre.

>>18609366
>Really makes you think

Nooootttt really.

I don't really believe those statistics are particularly meaningful, since for 1, heterosexual relationships are SIGNIFICANTLY less likely to report domestic abuse to begin with, and two gay people have got it hard. They do NOT live easy lives. A lot of them have suffered persecution, abuse, and rejection through out either the entirety of their lives, or for a significant portion. And this isn't just a few cases, this is the VAST majority of them. It makes sense why a lot of them get fucked up and suffer through depression and the like.

Look at a cross section of hetero sexual who have experienced similar and you'll probably notice a similar ratio of people acting up.

And even ignoring all that, if you're comparing gay men vs gay women, look at the respective traits they tend to have

Gay women tend to emulate masculinity.
Gay men tend to emulate femininity. (of course there are obvious exceptions to both of these)

Fuck dude if you need any proof of this, walk in to a gay bar and listen to what's playing:
Pop, Dance, and generally happy/uptempo sounds
Literally #1 song on my local gay bars jukebox (literally pulled it off touchtunes right now):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eH3giaIzONA

Walk in to a gay bar/club on ladies night and listen to what's playing:
Rap, Hip hop, and generally hard/down tempo sounds
Without fail, every time I've been to one this has played:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DgYSM91vJko

Not AT ALL saying I support the belief that gay females are violent, just that your argument is full of holes, that there is more going on the the way you're trying to paint things, and even if we assumed that those stats were true, if anything, suggests masculinity is the source of violence :p.

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>>18609335

>Kek at most gay guys do an IRL reeeeee and whip their wrists around like the chicks on THe View.

I dont know why this made me laught so fucking hard. Its true though

How often do women cheat in relationships and/or marriages?

Bump >>18609172
Armpits? Feet? Where else?

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>Talking to girl from school
>We've been friends for a month now
>She sends me a SC of her legs in full display in the bathtub
>She knows I like her, but she has a bf
>Sends me about 7 or 8 pics showing off her curves(No nudes or coming to close to her crotch) before I say 'Smh flirting with the dude in your chemistry class'
>Acts in total shock and says 'I didn't mean to come off as flirting'

What did she really mean by this?

>>18609585
Female, armpits.

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>>18608953
Not sure, but pic related is a sure way to trigger them for me.

Ladies, help me out here
>be me 22, she 25
>we've known each other for years, but my best friend was dating her until like last year even though he knew I liked her
>close-ish friends, we hang out but not often, maybe 3 times a month, talk on Facebook all the time
>discussion turns to dating, we're discussing what she wants in a man
>she lists all the qualities I have, then says "basically someone exactly like you"
>so I say, why not me then?
>she laughs
>says not you, obviously
>I ask why
>She says because
>I ask because why
>she says just because
Because fucking what? I just don't get it. What more does she want?

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Should I try again?
Take a girl out for a few dates goes well... Mention owning guns she backs off. Text for a little bit and she says shes put off. Explain I'm selling them.
Says shes happy to meet again as friends or whatever.
Agree.
Ask if she's still down.... She doesn't respond.
Text her like a month later asking a random uni question and get a response. Should I say: "hey, I know things got a bit weird after that comment but I really enjoyed the time we spent together when we were catching up blah blah blah and like that comment doesn't totally summarise me and I'd love the chance to catch up again and show you that" but stress that if she's not interested then there's no stress

I asked a girl out, and while she said yes, she's really busy, and she isn't lying about it, as she has shown me her schedule and she usually works 5-6 days a week and often has stuff going on with her off days. It's been a month since I asked her out, and her schedule isn't letting up, is it worth it to wait?

>Be me
>Born with dick
>enter 4chin
>ask me anything cuz muh dick
>dick
>dk
>louigi
>mario?
>peach
>peaches are good
>peaches have lots of vitamin A
>vitamin A helps with night vision
>eat peach
>adopted darkness
>darkness is an ally, darkness is life
>...You merely adopted the dark. I was born in it, molded by it...
>le savage bane somewhere
>i wasn't born in the dark
>i wasn't born in USA either
>try to run away
>hit wall
>ohshit.jpg
>great southern wall
>forgot to pay for the wall

>>18608903
Girls do you test guys to make sure you know what you're getting into? If you do, what type of things do you to test? Is it a stringent process or do you just poke a bit to make sure he isn't crazy? Do you do it for every guy even if it's a short-term relationship?

How do I find out whether a girl is available? I have a bad habit of automatically assuming any girl I'm interested in would obviously be taken so I avoid approaching her.

A girl and I have been texting for a little bit, but we haven't texted in like two weeks because we've both been busy. I've seen here in person once between then and now, but only briefly.

Should I text her again, or is it weird to text again after that long? Should I just drop it?

>>18610134
Also interested

Why would this girl go through all the trouble of spending time with me and going to the city with me when she lives 20 miles away from me, continually accept me asking her to do stuff and being ok with everything I plan if she doesnt want to go date me?

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GIRLS

PLEASE I REALLY NEED AS MANY GIRLS TO ANSWER THIS. GUYS ARE WELCOMED TOO

Does multiple eye contact on different days mean anything? Assuming we cross path each other once or more than once per day.

Seems like almost everytime we do cross each other's path, our eyes lock for a few seconds and gone.

I want to date this girl that I've already asked once but she was just starting a relationship with someone else that ended about a month ago, I stopped talking to her after they got serious because I am on decent terms with him but now he's out of the picture and i decided to text her again and she replies around once an hour, give or take sometimes instantly sometimes 3+ hours, but the interesting thing is she'll reply late into the night all the way up to 1 a.m. and the texting becomes far more frequent in the evenings. Now the catch is she's a really innocent and nice girl who I'm not so sure she even knows the subtle implication that are typically cues to lead a man on. I don't know if she is doing this deliberately because she's interested or if she just doesn't quite realize that it looks like anything other than continuing conversation. I'm also pretty sure she falls asleep in between texting me as it stops late at night and resumes in the morning.

Ladies I really want to now how I can bring up anal play to my gf. I mean like asking her to rim me. It's something I've wanted to try out for a while just to see if I like it or not. But I don't want her to think I'm gay or anything. I willing to shave and clean up for her. I just don't know how to bring it up to her.

Girls
Is it true big sister are are for big hugs?

>>18610312
put pineapple on your asshole and tell her there's a prize when she gets to the bottom of it

Hey guys..

So I feel I'm texting this girl way too much. I feel that she's not into it. I'm just very clingy at all times and I would like to stop some how. Is there anyway I can recover or whatsup?

>get fairly close to girl in my friend group over several months (been to her house, met her dad, etc)
>she drives and rarely drinks so often takes me to and fro
>one day there's some confusion so I tell her "I like you and I think you're good looking but I'm not attracted to you"
>she gets moody with me for a few weeks
>there's a house party and I ask her to come, tell her it's been a while
>she comes to it and seems fine at first, we talk about the party and I tell her about the date I had
>I later ask if she can give me a lift home when she leaves
>"No. is that the only reason you invited me? So I could take you home? "
>"No of course not"
>"Well you always seem to want me to drive you around"
>"I invited you because we've been friends for months and I enjoy your company. It's pretty fucking simple"
>"Mhm, sure"

What the fuck is going through her head?

>>18610456
what exactly are you sending to her?

>>18610468
Yeah imagine a dog sending you texts. That's me and my add brain. And the dog thinks it's funny

>>18609808

she doesn't want to lose you as a friend so when she's 35 and out of options, she can run to you with open arms.

>>18610468
I send her stuff that's pityful to me and she goes "aww". Then I act funny and she semi reciprocates. This probably doesn't help at all

>>18610182
Because she enjoys spending time with you but doesn't want your dick in any of her orifices.

>>18609735
Either she's really, obliviously stupid, or she's trying to play around with you. I'd say the latter is probably more likely, but there are some real airheads out there.

>>18609813
I'd say no. If she's put off that easily, it's not worth it.

>>18610467
>"I like you and I think you're good looking but I'm not attracted to you"
She's all pissy because you don't want to boink her.

>>18609266
Friendships that have the camaraderie of male friendship without the sexual tension.

>>18609266
They're guaranteed to be more of a whore than them.

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how do i stop putting women in the girlfriend zone?

-Girls

I'm a hobby photographer and I typically like shooting portraits of people. If I were dressed well, started a friendly conversation with you and commented on how your style looked cool/different. Would you let me take a photo of you and get your number? Or would that be creepy?

>>18610467
You hurt her feelings. Maybe she was starting to be into you and maybe not, but when you said you're not attracted to her what she heard was "I think you're ugly and I wouldn't be with you," and that would offend 99% of people.

>>18610615
I'm conflicted about the asking for her number part... You could probably go up to people and aks them if its okay to take a photo though. You could make a blog or smth and hand out cards with information to the site where they can get their picture.

You will probably be able to have a conversation with the girls after taking the picture, and if it goes well, it goes well. I really wouldnt ask for their number though.

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Girls: Help me understand this a little

>went out with a girl 3 times
>had amazing sex
>says she can barely walk after it
>wants to make it a regular thing
>we text and sc all the time
>then she never replies to text messages or sc
>still reads my story and opens what i send on sc

What possible reason would she ghost me for? I don't want advice on contacting her again, I just want to understand why people do this.

>>18610631
Eh, I haven't ever had sex or been in a relationship, so my advice is probably pretty skewed on that front, but I have "ghosted" people before. When I usually do it, it's because I just get lazy and stop wanting to talk to people for a few weeks, then I get all embarrassed about it, and because of THAT it makes me not want to talk to them even more.

On second thought, this is less of a girl thing and more of me being an autistic NEET, so this probably won't help you in any way.

>>18610627
So something along the lines of

"Hey excuse me"
"I noticed your clothing style seemed pretty cool"
"What's your name? Mine is X"
"Would you mind if I took a couple photographs of you? I like to do portrait photography"
"Let me get your number, we should grab coffee or something. I'll also send you the photos I took"

>>18610631
>we text and sc all the time

Was she initiating first? If not then there is your problem. If one thing I've noticed is that you don't want to text too much in the early stages unless she is the one initiating contact with you.

Example being this I met this one girl and we have been dating for 3 months now. If I don't message her at all during the day she always asks me how my day was and what I did.

>>18610639
Well input is still input, so thank you. She's not a NEET but a student if that helps? I also know she has today off from anything and usually just lazes in bed today.

>>18610642
>Was she initiating first? If not then there is your problem. If one thing I've noticed is that you don't want to text too much in the early stages unless she is the one initiating contact with you.

Hmm, half and half I'd say. Our conversations were usually huge and she'd send walls of text so it wasn't all one sided. I've sent one last text to her today, which was ignored and I guess I'll just leave it in her hands now. There were days where I didn't initiate and never got anything back too.

>>18609292
As in, first relationship, then yeah, every once in a while.
Occasionally I might fap to some pics of her.
But I'd never want to get back together with her. We stayed good friends but then drifted away from that as well.

>>18610642
>"Let me get your number, we should grab coffee or something. I'll also send you the photos I took"
You should definitely scrap this part. Remmeber, at the point of taking the pic, you have no idea if the girl is single or not and it will just feel like you only took the pic to ask her that question. (Which I think is your intention anyways...)

Be more elegant about it and let a conversation happen naturally after taking the pic. You'll probably have to take it more than once anyways. Laugh together and if something comes of it then fine. But you sound really really desperate if you just go straight for the date question. You don't need to go through the whole hobby photographer stick first if you're not a complete pussy

>>18610615
Creepy, definitely. Especially if you ask for the number.

>>18610615
I'm a girl who wears really out there alternative fashion so I'm pretty used to random people wanting my photo. But I would find it creepy if they asked for my number afterwards.

You're probably better off chatting, getting their number and then asking to take their photo a couple weeks/months down the line. Or just asking for the photo and then leaving them alone.

>>18610648
>>18610653
>>18610662
Okay, so basically just have a friendly conversation with them and ask for their number the normal way. zzzz

Met a girl from tinder at a festival, we make out a lot, good conversation, etc. Then her friend arrives, says something I didn't hear, she immediately walks away with her friend without saying good bye. Why would anyone do this?

>>18610615
how about the mail so you send them the pics if they are interested? maybe still creep but way less than number

Guys (or girls), how does it make you feel when your s/o sends you a sexy pic of themselves? I would like to do this for my s/o (he never asked but I think that is because he didnt think I would be into it.) I honestly can't imagine a guy not liking that but I am a little nervous about his reaction.

>>18610684
send them here so we can judge better. he will like it anyway

>>18610615
>Would you let me take a photo of you and get your number?

Not a chick, but:

You complimenting them and asking for a photo because fashion or photography is your hobby is fine.

You asking for their number is hitting on them.

You trying to trick them in to giving you MORE information about themselves by using your hobby as an excuse, THAT'S creepy.

In fact it'd be significantly LESS creepy if you just straight up asked for their number.

Pick One. Not both.

>>18610684

I mean, unless he's a major prude, he'll probably be pleased?

Personally, I'd keep em, probably *use* them, and then delete them.

But I'm a major privacy nut that knows that keeping that kind of shit on your phone is never safe.

>>18610684
I got one when I wasn't expecting it a while ago. It was a nice surprise since she'd never done it before and said she probably never would.

>girlfriend is going crazy
>can't enjoy anything or function
>can only pace around her room and freak out nonstop
>finally is starting to want help after a long period of refusing it
>our usual things of going out to walk or ride bikes or whathaveyou are all not working

anyone have any tips for how i could distract her for a bit so we could have a little bit of fun? i hate seeing her like this. :( she's too wonderful to be so miserable. i'm going to try calling around psychiatrist offices tomorrow and see if we can get her some help, but in the meantime, what can she do? she's really mentally unstable right now and basically can't even watch TV/struggles to leave the house without panicking

>>18610688
Building on this; a woman can think of a lot of reasons why someone wanting their photo could be totally innocent and therefore not creepy.

Asking a woman for her number basically translates to "I want to fuck you, either now or in the future". Not creepy in an of itself but;

Asking her for her number after you've taken her photo makes this thing she presumed was innocent suddenly really creepy. Like "oh shit, he wants to fuck me. That picture is likely going straight into his spank bank"

>>18610696

Sounds like acute psychosis. Do not wait a day, contact medical professionals now.

>>18610200
No.

Girls, why are you so stupid?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ugJZhL-cbc

I texted my ex a congratulation for her birthday and she jumped the gun to tell me she misses me. We had a pretty bad relationship at the end, and I ment nothing more than to congratulate her. What do?

Girls

Do you prefer when a guy owns a cat or a dog?

>>18610626
Well I just meant it in the sense that I think she has attractive qualities but I don't have a crush on her or whatever.

What should I do about it? She's so hard to read; I sometimes think she might be into me but other times she's really cold. Plus I honestly have suspicions that she may be a sperg.

whats something that immediately grabs your attention on a profile picture?

Guys: anyone else's dick erect straight up? Like basically it could tuck itself under my belt if it was loose enough. It can bend to about 90° (parallel with your body like you would expect it to Normally) before it starts resisting and hurting

Help

I told my boyfriend I won't let him out it in my ass next weekend. I explained to him I want it to be special and and act of love, not something I just let him do on a whim. He put his tip in before and it wasn't that bad. He's upset with me now and claiming I'm using anal sex as a bargaining chip. What do?

>>18611067

Yes? Erect dicks stand up, that's normal.

>>18611078

Well, you literally told him that you are artificially limiting the amount of anal he gets, so it does seem manipulative.

>>18611095
It's my first time. I just want to save it for a special night.

>>18611089
You don't understand.

>>18611067
Dude, my dick ONLY sticks up from my body at a 90 degree angle, but my brother and I compared dicks back when we were younger and I was totally astounded to see his got hard and snapped straight up against his body like you describe.

I think it's just less common than boners that stick straight out instead of up, but at least you've got the ability to hide your boners easier.

>>18611100

I'm not saying you have to give him your ass if you don't want to. Just that you need to explain it in a way that's about you, not him.

>I just want to save it for a special night.

How old are you two? Because you sound young. And it's fine to be worried about aspects of sex when you are young. Just be honest about what you feel.

And remember, sex doesn't make a relationship special. Anal might seem like a good birthday gift, but you can do other stuff too. So, I don't know, ask yourself if it's worth waiting just to make it "special" later.

>>18611105
>You don't understand.

Thanks for explaining.

>Dude, my dick ONLY sticks up from my body at a 90 degree angle

>I think it's just less common than boners that stick straight out instead of up

My own dick and the ones I've seen in porn stick up dude. I don't have too much experience with dicks, but personally I'd say it's weirder that yours never sticks up.

>>18611109
I'm 22 and he's 26. I'm honestly afraid that he'll take it for granted. I've had all of my firsts with him and well, this is the only thing we haven't done yet. I explained that I'm afraid that it will hurt for me and that I want to be relaxed when doing it. Maybe not as a birthday gift but more like something we do after we had a romantic night together and if he was really hands on/sweet on that day.

>>18611133
>I explained that I'm afraid that it will hurt for me and that I want to be relaxed when doing it.

That's sensible. Anal is not an easy feat, it requires preparation and a hecka of lube. You can get really hurt otherwise.

> I'm honestly afraid that he'll take it for granted. I've had all of my firsts with him and well, this is the only thing we haven't done yet.

This sounds more like it's about something else. He is way older than you, and I know how pushy we guys can be. It's good to make yourself be respected, but understand this: If you are worried about him overstepping, he probably already is. Trust your gut on this.

I can't help but feel this is not only about anal.

>>18609055
When she unblocked you, it is time for you to block her instead. Dont talk to her.

>>18609139
I chat them up again and this time i want their number for sure.

>>18609153
Talk to me without reason and smile. But it really depends on guy.

>>18609172
Armpits. Boy.

>>18609197
Find asexuals. Online dating. Or simply do long distance relationships. Or play some mmorpg and find online friends.

>>18609288
When boy wants friendship, he makes male friends.

>>18609469
All the time. Is this what you wanted to hear?

>>18609735
She wants you to ask her on date idiot. Bring condoms.

>>18609808
You are her back up man, but obviously not good enough for her. Trigger her by asking her what should you wear to tinder date. If she secretly wants you, this will force reaction. If not, stop being backup and find real gf!

>>18609813
>>18610679
She is a bitch. Find new gf.

>>18610036
No. If girl wants you, she will make a time for you. You obviously mean nothing for her. Move on.

>>18610050
>>18610588
Psycholog. Fight your autism anon! Hang in there!

>>18610124
By asking her on date. Or her phone number. Or chatting her up.

>>18610134
>>18610170
>>18610200
>>18610301
Ask her on date noob.

>>18610182
Attention whore. Or was raped in the past.

>>18610684
Sending nudes of yourself to other people gives them ammo if they will want to hurt you. But in most cases all you risk is giving him boner. Go ahead?

>>18610696
A lot of mental problems are heritable and impossible to cure, only to cope with. Find non crazy gf?

>>18611009
Block her numbet and social media. She is an ex for reason anon.

>>18611078
He is basically right. Grow up, learn how to communicate and maybe think before you open your mouth. Also anal is overrated.

I'm attractive, fit, joining the armed forces so I'll be in a position of power too

So why don't I have a girlfriend?????

>>18611148
Let me guess: you have asked 0 girls on dates in the last 2 years?

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>>18611089
>>18611116
picture for clarity

>>18611105
oh, ok. i figured it was the case but wasnt really sure since i cant say ive noticed it in either (hetero) amateur or pro porn so i guess i figured it was due something specific to me or how i grew up or something.

>>18611166

The one labeled "ME" is both the one I have and the one I see the most in porn.

>>18611158
They should ask me. I'm s-shy.

>>18611142
It's true that I feel like I'm being taken granted in general. I put out for him because I love sex with him and am in love with him. He's made requests before (dom play, cosplay) that I have fulfilled, yet he never asks what I want. I give him gifts eventhough I have a small income and do his chores for him all the time. I'm probably hoping that delaying anal will make us more equal. Because I always try my best to make him happy I can't understand his response. I thought he'd understand that I want it to be special for him to when we do have anal. (It's his first time too.)

>>18611170
by normal i also meant dicks that are between 0 and 45ish degrees not full on 90 degrees rubbing your belly button

>>18611184
>I'm probably hoping that delaying anal will make us more equal.

You are being manipulative then. Not trying to insult you, he doesn't sound like a nice guy, but you are using sex to modify his behavior.

Want honest advice? Let him go. You got what you could out of this relationship, but a 26 yo that sates 22 yo virgins is a mess in and of itself. Use this as a learning experience and move on.

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>>18611176
Keep dreaming. And dont worry, a lot of gays in the army. Somebody will ask you on "date" there. Shy fit qtie boys are always in high demand. Romance can blossom even on the battlefield.

>>18611206
I'm not gay I'd only fuck a femboy but never date one

I need a woman to do my laundry and cooking
They expect us to do it when there are perfect good women in the rooms down the hall???

>>18611211

Ok, I guess we know why you don't get dates now. God, I hope I'm being taking bait and this is not real.

>>18611199
Perhaps I will break off next week. He's a sweet guy when we're together but he can be very blunt. I think he's just not in love with me as much as I am in love with him. Thanks for the advice.

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>>18611211
Your shitposting is too obvious anon.

>>18611218
>I think he's just not in love with me as much as I am in love with him.

Love yourself and learn when to walk away. Good luck Anon. And don't use sex as a tool in a future relationship either!

Girls, would you accept me for who I am, a silly sausage?

>>18611275
You specifically, I don't know.
My boyfriend is a qt little autistic dumbass and I love the shit out of him.

Girls

If a guy doesnt participate in sex or dating (regardless of his reasoning), what would girls think of him after hearing that? I already know the criticism that comes from other guys..

>>18611290
Nothing much. Might thing it's a shame because he's a great dude and I'd love to date him/see him with a good woman, but it's really whatever.

>>18611277

What are his autistic tendencies?

>>18611293

Really? That's it?

that's surprising. Because from dudes it's usually a lot of disapproval

>>18611294
Asocial, awkward, shitposts in real life, loves anime and star trek.
Spent most of our first date sperging and couldn't even talk.

>>18611299
Yup, I don't care about other people's sexual/romantic life. I'd really love if none of my friends talked to me about it and I won't go talk about who you like or dislike fucking.

>>18611308

Well that's good to hear.

From my friends I usually hear "you need to start using your dick. You're wasting your youth". I did actually have 1 of my female friends tell me that too..

>>18611314
They worry about you, it seems? Maybe they see you're unhappy and they think you're unhappy because you don't have a girlfriend?

>>18611318

One of my friends literally said exactly what you said

>>18611320
Then instead of feeling offended or ashamed, try understanding if they have a reason to be worried or not.

>>18611078
Ugh, men are so whiny when it comes to sex. Why are you obligated to do something painful that brings 0 pleasure to you? Is he willing to do that for you, too?

>>18611325

I don't like when people worry about me, so that in itself bothers me.

>>18611333
That's part of the deal with having friends. They love you and worry about you.

>>18611340

Well I don't like when they worry about me. It just makes me feel guilty

>>18611345
>Well I don't like when they worry about me. It just makes me feel guilty
What about? Don't you worry about them, care about them and wish they were happy?
It's the same deal. You're worthy of love as much as they are. If you love, care and worry for them then it's just fair that they love, care and worry for you.

I understand it might be annoying, but I believe they don't do it to make you feel ashamed or anything. They're just worried that you might be missing out or forcing yourself to be unhappy when they think you have potential.

>>18611352

>Don't you worry about them, care about them and wish they were happy?

Yes, but I don't like when they do this toward me.

Women: what is your mindset when liking someone on tinder? is it all in the picture?

Why do women are aroused only with little things on the long term? I mean, they can be aroused on short term but it's not the same.

>>18611396
What are you talking about?

>>18611401
I mean, little things here and there, just making the girl comfortable, valued, safe etc...not in a clingy way of course
This beats all the short term thing I think (good face, etc..)

Men and women: At how many years of dating would you consider long enough for the possibility of a proposal?

>>18611328
I like being fingered in the ass while having piv so I'm not sure if it'll bring me 0% pleasure but no he wouldn't be willing to do assplay himself. (I don't find that arrousing either). He hasn't eaten me out for 6 months though so yeah.

>>18611536
I'd say that we'd have to be
>Over 25
>Together for 2+ years
>Living together for 1+ years

Girls

Have you had ONS with male friends and just stayed friends with them after that?

>>18611568
No. It'd be extremely inappropriate to stay friends with someone I had sex with.

>>18611568
Yes, but never a real close friend.

How do I get a manface gf?

>>18611583

faggot

Go for girls who go into masculine career fields- pilots, police, firefighter

>>18611576

When you would hang out with him afterward. Would you ever think back to the sex, and was it awkward being around him?

>>18611583
Why do that when you can get a girl with a feminine penis? It's a much better option.

>>18611067
Mine also goes straight up. Probably is related to bone and muscle structure. That combined with it being a crooked nub when flaccid means I can't ever pee without holding it unless I want it to go everywhere but the porcelain.

>>18611635
Because boobs

>>18611662
>implying hormone pills don't give you boobs
>implying plastic surgeries don't exist

>>18611583
ugly girls on tinder

>>18611566
Living together before marriage actually increases the chances of divorce. If I had to guess why, it probably is because you associate the benefit of being together with marriage, so you value it more.

>>18611583
Hang out near factories

>>18611690
Actually, it's because people who already live together feel obligated to get married, while people who don't find it easier to break up if they aren't a good match. People who live together often "slide" into marriage, more than deciding to get into it.

On the other hand, I still stand by what I said - I wouldn't marry a man I haven't lived in for a while. You get to know a lot about a person living with them, and in my opinion it is important to know your SO in that way before getting married.
We're talking of a not extremely big difference anyway (about 5% if I recall correctly).

>>18611707
>femanon with sexy brain and good judgement
Where is the queue for dating you?

girls, is sharing sexually explicit jokes and memes an ioi?

>>18611769
I banter with my buddies about sex from time to time and it's all good and platonic.

>>18611773
are you all awkward and goofy wheb you do it

>>18611779
No, I'm mischievous and sassy when I do it.

>>18611785

Would you consider having sex with any of your buddies?

Girls

How big of a turn off are quiet guys? Not necessarily shy, just ones that don't have a lot they want to say.

>>18611785
not me >>18611793
thanks tho. just trying to figure out if she's just a coy flirt or wants to fuck.

>>18611737
That was cute as fuck. Made me smile.
Thanks, anon. <3

>>18611799
A total turn off.
Good conversation is one of the few things that are really essential for me.

Last 3 girls i met and hooked up with since becoming single have all told me how much they hate their dad/mum, and have some dysfunctional family. Am i the weird one for having a family i love?

Is this norm for people today?

Every time I see a girl I'm interested in, I can't help but feel she already has a boyfriend so I end up not approaching her. How can I get past this blockade, and what's a tactful way of asking whether she's available?

>>18611826
What if I make what few words I say count and am stoic as fuck?

>>18611833
Most of my friends are in great terms with their parents.

On the other hand, women who come from broken households tend to be more promiscuous, so it makes sense that some of the women you hooked up with didn't have the best relationship with their parents.

>>18611833

A lot of people just blame their problems on their parents because it's easy

>>18611799
Can you hold a conversation when it counts?

Girls have told me they like me because i have an awkwardness to me and seem different to other guys, helps im /fit/ and attractive though.

>>18611845
Still, I want someone I have fun with.
If you're a terrible conversational partner, I'm going to get bored of taking to a stone wall sooner or later.

>>18608911

I was having sex with a girl I met at work; I had her legs over my shoulders and she queefed.

Afterwords she said that was the first time she had a 'Pussy fart' and looked embarrassed; I explained it was because of the angle.

It was my first time hearing a girl say the words 'Pussy fart', the way she said it made it sound disgusting but hilarious.

>>18611848
I suppose that makes sense, its like how people say daddy issue girls are easy.


>>18611850
Sound like shit people, think i will avoid those kinds of people for a relationship.

>>18611840
>Every time I see a girl I'm interested in

So you say you are interested just by looks? How about talking to her to know if she has a BF?

>>18611690
All this "If I can only find a qt virgin we'll live happily ever after" stuff is fairy tale bullshit. In the US, 70 % of divorces cite money issues, not cheating. A husband loses his job, suffers a illness, the bills pile up. Not how many dicks she rode 10 years ago.

Does sex bring happiness?

>>18611908
No it brings emptiness. Every one night stand i have makes me feel even worse, and i am a man.

>>18611916

They why do you do it

>>18611908

No, it doesn't BY ITSELF. Same as how exercise alone won't make you happy if you go back to a house where your mom yells at you and your brother keeps you up at night with loud music while your grades go down the drain.

Sex is nice and it feels nice to do it, but it won't solve your life.

>>18611925
Because i have a high sex drive and i am horny 24/7. Which also makes relationships difficulty because i have trouble turning down hot women.

What's a good opening line to a member of the opposite sex from school you haven't talked to in years? In terms of starting a romantic interest.

>>18611941
>In terms of starting a romantic interest.

You haven't talked in years. How about you get to know them before making a move?

>>18611871
I can't really bring myself to be attracted to a girl just from one glance at her, although theres some exceptions if I can gauge more of her personality through her mannerisms, clothes etc.
I'm more referring to times where I meet someone in a larger setting and have the chance to know her a bit. Last time this happened was when I checked out a catholic student group and there was this absolute cutie who was easy to talk to and really nice. Unfortunately I couldn't muster up the courage to ask her anything that would help us get to know each other better. I joined her bible study which was fun on it's own right but what I didn't know was that she barely attended it.
Now that I think about it, I still have her number but I haven't contacted her since November and asking for a date out of the blue seems like it's doomed to fail, plus I don't even know if she already has a boyfriend.

>>18611976

Well, if you have her number and even joined her in some activity AND still you don't hang out, then I'd say it doesn't matter if she has a BF or not. She just ain't interested.

>>18611793
I'm deeply infatuated with one of them
So yes

Girls: is it true that you decide in the first few seconds you know someone if you are interested in him and no matter what they do after there no chance you will allow him in your pants if you didnt like him?

>>18612062
No, at first I didn't give a flying fugg about my current crush. Then I got to know him...

>>18612062
False, it goes same for both genders your opinion of someone can change with time, shared experiences, and knowledge of the person.

>>18612067
and did it take some super dedication from him to get you into liking him? or simply from knowing him better worked the deal

How do girls flirt? I want to know the difference between someone into me and someone that's just nice.

>>18611304
How does one shitpost in real life?

>>18612076
I started paying more attention to him and it turned out he is the most charismatic and intelligent guy I've ever met. I noticed how knowledgeable he is, and how specific and entertaining is his sense of humour. When I started talking to him more and got to know him better, I was a goner. When I first saw his face I thought he looks a bit goofy and is way too skinny. Now I find him incredibly attractive.

>>18611166
I stand straight up like you, kinda. I'm around 60 degrees up from straight out, and as i curve upwards the tip is pretty much completely vertical. I've gotten compliments from at least three ladies saying that i "poke the right places"

>>18612078
She stares into your eyes and gives you her full attention. If she's multitasking or her eyes are darting around the room while you're talking she's bored and waiting for you to do something different

>>18611822
:-D

>>18611840
Locate your balls and make sure they are still attached. Man up?

>>18611908
Mainly pregnancy and children.

>>18611941
Hello, long time no see. Are you still single as back then?

>>18612078
Ask them on date. Works every time.

>>18612114

Hmmm. I notice a lot of the former, we make eye contact a lot actually.

>>18612081
He's the kind of guy that will make a casually inflammatory comments at the dinner table, say mean jokes, make stupid comments in inappropriate situations (friend's funeral), will go on forever on a joke till you're so frustrated at him that it isn't even funny anymore.
I find it pretty amusing, and love his fucked up sense of humour.

>>18612123
Ok how about her body? Is her torso facing you? And how long is she looking into your eyes? Because 5 seconds is too short, you're gonna wanna look for a 10 second eye-fuck here. And if the side of her torso is facing you she's preoccupied with something else.

>>18612128

Body facing me almost always. Not 10 seconds though, around 5, but you just said that's too short.

Girls, will you become soccer moms? Be honest.

>>18611983
I think you misunderstood, I haven't done anything to let her know I'm interested. I only got her number to ask her about bible study, which I joined partly because of her but mostly because I wanted to join one. At our meetups I never talked to her outside of the Bible stuff, and I never considered talking via text messages, not sure why though. As far as she knows I'm just a friendly guy interested in bible studies who got her number so I could join one since she mentioned it when we talked for the first time. I didn't even ask her for her number, I got it from someone else I also met at the Christian student meetup. I haven't made any attempts to just hang out with her because I keep think she either doesn't want anything to do with me, is already taken or both.

>>18612134
Mmmm. 5 seconds is not meaningful, that's just polite. Eye-contact is necessary for verbal communication and she's just being respectful of that.
When she looks at you, REALLY looks at you, then you can get your hopes up.

>>18612180

I don't have any hopes, she has a bf, I was just curious. Either way what's REALLY looking at someone? I know you can check for pupil dilation, but who's thinking of that in the moment.

>>18612062
Absolutely not. Few years ago, I met a guy I considered to be rather underwhelming. He was soft-spoken and passive, the kind of man you overlook easily. We're together now and I consider him the love of my life because we actually got to know each other.

>>18612171
>I didn't even ask her for her number, I got it from someone else

Don't message her. That's creepy as fuck dude. Let this one go and better luck next time.

Girls,

How do you get a girl to stop blowing you if she's horrible at it?

>>18612193
True. The way I perceive a girl REALLY looking at you is what I've described. Full attention, with un-broken eye-contact for about 10+ seconds. Why that in particular? It's the same reason you give her your undivided attention. You like to look at her. You can tell someone is into you if they like to look at you.

I'm a decent looking guy but I'm fucking terrible with women. I can talk to them just fine.
But I'm terrible at actually making a move. Or to be more exact, I have no fucking clue how to make a move.
One of the girls I work with is really attractive and we get along great. At first she had a boyfriend so our relationship was completely platonic. But a few months ago she split up with him and a week later we made out in a club. Nothing's happened since. I asked her what was happening a week after and she said she needed some time to think because of the breakup and I said that was fair enough and didn't bother her about it again. It hasn't been mentioned again, and I have no idea how to bring it up again.
We've hung out a couple times since then but nothing's really happened but I haven't done anything to make it happen either.
It's getting to the point where I'm about to move away for studies in just over a month's time, and I'm wondering whether it's worth doing anything at this point, and how to even make that move in the first place.

Then there's the whole issue of getting girls at uni since I clearly have no idea what I'm doing here. I occasionally pull girls in clubs but I don't actually know what I'm doing.

>>18612250
how about telling her what you would like to do?

>>18612198
Like I said, for some reason I never thought of using her number to hit her up, I just wanted to ask her about the bible study so I could talk to her in person there. I've had other people from the meetup write me later who also got my number for someone else, so I didn't think anything of it back then.

Women: How do you usually indirectly express your dislike to have a conversation with somebody while having said conversation? I don't mean saying you want to stop talking, but subtle hints that one might look for.

>>18612277
How many times does this have to happen for you to be sure that she likes you? Like does it still count if it's a one time thing or does it have to happen often?

>>18612338

Well not a girl, but one word or short answers you can't do anything with is one of the top indicators

>>18612338
yeah i'm also not a chick but she'll definitely look interested if she likes you. If you're just making conversation with them as people, then there shouldn't be any reason to dislike talking to you unless you're unclean or boring.

I hooked up with this woman a few times but now I'm feeling some sort of jealousy.
You see, she's 29 and (unhappily) married and sleeps around a lot. Now it's some guy from her work and I just know that she's with him tonight.
She even lives in another country and we chat about once a week online.

Why do I feel jealousy and how do I stop it?

Military pilot;

Upon hearing these words, what do you think about a man?

>>18612776
Absent.

>>18612781
That's unfortunately too true.

>>18612250
Tell her to try something new

>>18612338
>short answers
>little or no smiling
>not asking/saying anything that gives the conversation a boost; essentially just saying yes/no or indicating that I'm listening
>body/feet facing away from you

This is assuming I give any signs at all. I do not usually show in any way that I'm not getting much out of a conversation. Having conversations you don't particularly enjoy is just a part of life. However if I usually do not find conversation interesting with someone I will make sure not to start talking to them myself so I guess that's still a sign.

>>18612744
You start developing feelings, or you are simply territorial and kind of regard her as "your" partner now despite not wanting to be exclusive yourself. Alternatively you are more jealous of her lifestyle (freedom and ease of finding partners, having her cake and eating it too) than of her having other partners.

Regardless of what they say, men can and sometimes do also develop emotions because of sleeping with someone. People aren't robots. If you fuck well you express not just lust but also a tenderness/affection, attention, desire to please etc that can in turn inspire more emotion.

I never know when it's okay to double-text someone. By that I mean, when you don't get a response for a while, how long should you wait before you send another message? For context I messaged my boyfriend asking if he'd like to hang out tonight but I haven't heard from him for about two hours. I've been accused of being high maintenance/annoying/clingy in the past so I'm paranoid that two texts in three hours is "clingy." I understand that people get busy and can't babysit their phone all day but my mind is screaming at me that he's purposefully ignoring me or something, as illogical as it is.

Girls

Is being cute really a good thing for a guy?
I get called cute a lot be it in real life or online, I just can't help it.

But it always seems like a "aww you're so cute I wanna be friends with you :3" kind of thing

>So do girls really want to be in relationship with a cute guy?
>Do I just have to find the right cutie so we can hang out and be cute together?

>>18612926
give it a day at least

>>18612951
Doesn't that compete with the question about getting together, like, today?

>>18612290
Ask them on dates dingus. Smile, hold hands, walk them around at park, talk, smile like retard and invite them to "study" with you or classic netflix and chill. Or say fuck it and try online dating or social events you hate.

>>18612944
What is justin bieber? Being cute means they want to cuddle you at minimum or molest, pamper and rape at maximum. Ask them on dates and smile. Dress nicely and act as innocent qtie boy. Touch them playfully and something will happen.
>you wont stop being cute until you will be able to grow beard
In the mean time, use cuteness as weapon.

>>18612971
Then don't see him today. You've put it in his hands now and if you keep asking then he'll know he needs to do nothing at all ever again.

>>18612776
Aggressive machismo type of guy who's never going to be there and is probably uber conservative and gun happy. But then, that's essentially what I think of all military personal- necessary, but I'd never want to be close to them.

>>18608911
A friend of mine does it all the time to freak us out
It's very strange

Whats the sexiest muscle that girls like? I hear lots of girls like forearms.

>>18611166
The dick labeled "ME" is the normal erect dick. Think of where a vagina is. Sometimes trailer trash girls call it a "front-butt" but it is not in front, it is under.

Imagine you had a straight out dick like you describe, how do you get that in a girls and keep it in one if you're both standing or kneeling, the way we evolved to fuck? You can't.

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How do you know when you're a physically unattractive girl? I was fat for most of my life so now that I'm almost slender, I'm now just worried about other things I can't change...like, my face.

I remember saying, "ah, that's the life" to an otherwise chubby girl still somehow being a boy magnet and then being told by my dormmate "really? All you have to do is dress the right way". So, if I dress like a slut, I get guys and that's the best way? That's depressing.

>>18613244
Don't worry about being unattractive in ways you can't change.

Don't be a slut.

Dress nice, dress sexy occasionally, but never dress slutty. Just learn to differentiate between nice, sexy and slutty. Always wear clean, unwrinkled clothes that have no stains. Be nice to people. Personal hygiene and grooming are daily tasks at an absolute minimum.

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Gals need some guidance.

>known this girl scince my softmore year.
>Now we've been placed into the same class.
>start to get to know each other and start to hit it off, conversations become more personal. Yada yada yada.
>we get place into a summer class because reasons.
>start talking again.
>she has strong convictions amd hates the makeup industry and doesn't put any on. (Fyi she's not a bum or a damn hippie. ) I think shes rather religious/ true to her convictions.(more on that later.)
>the next day out of the blue she wears eye liner and perfume. (Something she has never done)
> as we talk it's becoming apparent that were staring at Each-others eyes.

The problem is, did I changer has a person. Dont get me wrong she looks amazing but what does this mean. Also another concern that's rather miscellaneous she never initiates communication. What gives. I know for a fact she's not shy and rather talkative in class. Help pls.

>>18613205
Im more of a legs gal. A guy with nice glutes, thighs, and calves, hnnnnnng

>>18612944
I think my boyfriend's cute. But I use cute to refer to mannerisms more than looks. And in my definition, I want to be with a cute guy.

However, to call a part of a man's looks cute, I think bf's eyes and nose are cute. His eyes are so big and brown and sometimes he just gives me this deep, wide-eyed look and it makes my heart burn kinda like acid reflux but the good kind.

If your compliment is followed by anything that refers to "just friends" something is going wrong, and I don't know what, anon.

To circumcised guys, does it feel painful/uncomfortable if you touch the head directly without any sort of lubrication?

>>18613365
No, but it is sensitive.

>>18610687
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>>18611145
thanks for helpin a gal out, anons

>>18613244
Was the chubby chick actually dressing like a slut? Or was she dressing well.

If a woman is dressed up in random garbage I'm going to assume she doesn't have her shit together, and in turn not really pursue her.

>>18613371
How sensitive? Like, if a girl just grabbed the head and started roughly rubbing the top with their thumb, it wouldn't feel good at all, right?
Basically my bf sucks at touching me and performing oral. I'm trying to find an analogue and explain in a way he'll understand so he'll stop trying to destroy my clit.

>>18613244
Post pic. You dont need to look like slut, but unless you plan to ask boys on dates yourself, you need to grab their attention somehow.

Ever smiled on a boy before? Try that. Uninterruped eye contact, smile and keep looking at him. He will either flee or approach you.

>>18613302
Ask her on date?

Girls, why do you like dudebros?
Guys, why do they like dudebros?

>>18613393
Its a very localized feeling, so it doesn't really feel good. If I'm hard enough it gets too sensitive to bear sometimes, though I think lube makes me it more sensitive. I generally don't make a habit of playing with just my head.

Though, I think just grabbing his dick and rubbing his head against your palm real fast will make get your point across.

where can I meet people with traditional attitudes who aren't necessarily religious? I'm looking for a girl to eventually have children with and guys to befriend but I can't pretend that I'm a Christian because it'd be shitty

>>18613425
Define 'traditional attitudes'

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>>18608911
we don't unless something pushes air in there, i've never had it happen other than during sex

>>18612062
no. when it comes to fucking dumb questions like this, ask yourself, "would i do this strange and completely irrational thing?" the answer will never be yes for someone on the basis of them being a woman.

>>18612137
no. no children.

>>18613428
natalist, against the permissive society regarding free love, drug use, body modification, have hobbies other than using social media or pursuing tinder hookups, can talk about politics without referencing john oliver. broadly right wing.

>>18613412
Thanks for the in-depth response. I'll do that and hopefully he'll get the idea.

>>18613450
Big cities in the south. Places like Atlanta, Nashville and Charlotte are more conservative than big cities elsewhere, so the values stick but not everyone there is religious.

>>18613444
>no. when it comes to fucking dumb questions like this, ask yourself, "would i do this strange and completely irrational thing?" the answer will never be yes for someone on the basis of them being a woman.

Well, to be fair the guy is going off the whole
>A woman decides in the first three seconds whether or not she wants to be with him
meme, which sounds crazy to us men.

[spoiler]It sounds crazy to us because a man isn't "interested" in women he sees and is attracted to, he wants to fuck them or get to know them, but most of us think of "interested" as the "getting to know them" phase instead of them "oh shit, who is she" phase.[/spoiler]

>>18613456
very interesting response. thank you.

Slutty girls at the club how do I convince you to touch my pepe?

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Women:

So I don't know this chick, but for the past few months, I've caught her staring at me for a long period of time (almost every time I'm around her), peeking at me in the corner of the eye when she passes by, and staring when I'm not looking (friend keeps pointing this out).

Bonus: A mutual friend of ours told me that she(girl that stares) brings me up a few times in convo, but tries too hard to not make it look obvious.

Do girls do this on guys they find interesting? (but don't personally know)

My girlfriend gets passive aggressive when I say I can't spend time with her. I spend almost all of my free time with her though, and it's not like I don't want to. I just can't handle other things going on in my life when I don't have time to myself. How do I handle this?

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My whole life I've felt ugly and unwelcome but recently I've been getting mysterious female attention.

Rate me pls

What do you look for in a relationship?

>>18613550
Not bad, I think
Im a dude tho, for what its worth
Also, someone give this guy a sammich

>>18613550
3-4/10, but that could just be a bad photo, idk.

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>>18613560
Better?

>>18613571
Stop making that stupid sad face and try again.

>>18613550
I think you look unhealthy (how is your diet? You exercise) but imo you have potential to be very cute. I'd make sure the back of your hair is trimmed and your eyebrows not so depressingly shaped...if that's possible. They look sparse as fuck.

>>18613577
Put a ? after exercise.

Is there any hope in finding a partner? The one time a girl shows interest in me and leads me on for an hour and then turns out to have a bf.

I think she just wanted the attention. But its really crushed my spirits because no one has ever taken an interest in me before. And im 22.

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>>18613401
Hm. Yeah, I guess. Very rarely though.
>smiled at cute boy that did something funny
>he tried getting to know me
>weirded out, I tell that to my dormmate later who said "no, that didn't happen you're a pathological lair"
So...maybe I'm just really ugly or something. Still, I don't think I'm that hideous. A few guys tend to perk up or smile at me when they see me. Etc. A guy in class openly wanted to fuck me (which imo is normal, guys would fuck anything, and I look different+am taller than most other girls at my school so I'm prob fetish bait or something). I don't really go places outside of class much and have only been almost skinny for a month or so, so I don't have much experience to go off of.

I usually feel dour or a lil self-conscious, so I probably am not approachable. Tbh I don't think I'll ever be ready to lose my virginity, but I'm just worried that I might be unpleasant to look at. No pic. I'm sick of the time I posted an ugly-looking pic here asking for advice and people told me I was "fishing". -_-

>>18613391
Dressing well and in this amazing chic style, at least the time where I saw her. She actually is infamous for dating a professional basketball player.

>>18613268
I'll try harder. It's just kind of hard...I have some serious latent tomboy tendencies and that sometimes shows up in my fashion. I wear nice jeans allll the time. Imo I look pretty put together, if not really in feminine clothing, half the time. The other half, I'm like any other girl just rushing to class. I don't think I'm particularly messy looking.

>>18613619
>a girl was nice and talked to me for an hour so she MUST have been interested
Stop mistaking niceness for being interested, for a start.

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>>18613576
This is the best I can do lol

>>18613577
I'm sort of getting into exercising and healthier eating which is why I'm posting these. How do I improve my eyebrows?

I know I need a haircut

>>18613653
You have a kind of vaguely effeminate, vulnerable air to you but you're not ugly. Just skinny fat as fuck with no body definition.

Your eyebrows look okay in this pic so you may not have to get a threading done.

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>>18613661
Do I still look vulnerable? This is my resting face. Is this skinny fat lol? I thought I was just skinny.

>>18613624
It did genuinely seem that way. Even when the conversation died she still tried to keep it going. Asked a few of my friends and they all thought she was keen too.

>>18613717
maybe she wanted to make a friend?

>>18613714
Much better! Anyway, it's kind of hard to tell--you seem a healthy weight yet don't seem to get much exercise. Like I said, there's little to no definition.

>>18613714
Get a fucking haircut.

You know how girls can get ~2 extra points out of 10 with some basic makeup? A haircut on a dude has the same effect. Something stylish but not too trendy with a bit of product in it would do you wonders. Mind you've gotta keep getting it cut. 4-6 weeks is the most anyone can really get away with for maintaining a short style. I have this friend who looks like a pretty good dude when he's had a fresh cut but he lets it go for months in between and starts to look unkempt so quickly.

>>18613723
Well anyway now that I've exposed myself maybe you can help me?

>cute latina starts at my work 2 weeks ago
>think we hit it off and ask for her number
>she writes it down for me on a piece of paper
>text her "hey" over the weekend but get no response
>pretty embarrassed I just kind of ignored her all week except for when I had to train her which is part of my job
>not awkward around her at all just strictly business and just polite joking around.
>last night she comes up to me with another chick who works there
>they ask me if I can walk them out of the building

So I did and just joked with the latina a bit I guess with like 1% renewed interest, but I still can't really read her. Does she want me to make some sort of overt move maybe? I thought actually asking someone out was like the corniest way to get into a relationship. Do I text her over the weekend?

>>18613721
Possibly. I did ask for number and she did punch it in. I'll ask in a few days if she's keen for something or other.

>>18609055
This completely depends on the type of friendship you had before dating and what kind of person you are. If the friendship was deep and worth preserving, then you might try to mend it, just don't expect things to ever go back to being the same and don't get jealous when she begins dating again.

I'm still friends with all of my ex's after breaking up because the friendship we had before dating was worth going back to. There's usually a period of time when they start dating someone else after we break up and I get jealous, but as time goes on and you move on, you lose all jealousy.

You just have to be ready to deal with the fact that you will never go back to being the same way before, and you might be starting from the ground up. Trust was broken, feelings were hurt, and things will never be the same as they were before.

>>18613758
Was the text literally just "hey" ?

Because how should she know that's you and not someone random, someone texting a wrong number, someone she doesn't want to talk to?

Also you seem to know this but people don't really ask each other out anymore. It'd be cool and simplify the world if we did but we don't and there's no use whining about it. We hang out and build sexual tension until someone starts using the word "date" and then you're free to start asking them to define the relationship.

>>18613776
It was literally just "hey" but she has my name in her contacts and everything.

The first week she was here we were kind of hitting it off and then she requested to work with me and we chatted up all day. Pretty sure there was a connection. But then she ignores my text, and my tearful ego gives me a bitch face around her all week. and then with like tougher guys around she asks me to walk her and co-worker chick out to their car. They laughed at all my jokes and they weren't even good. I am so confused right now, is she into me or not?

>>18613816
Probably no real need to treat her like she's a bitch. People do legitimately forget to respond and if I'm being honest then "hey" is about as shit a conversation starter as I can think of.

Don't push it. I'd say you've done about as well as you could have given the circumstances. Just back up and don't put yourself in a position where she has power over you if you've got reservations about whether she's going to play with you. Leave the ball in her court and you'll find out if she's into you. Maybe she just wants to be friends with her coworkers.

How much value do grills place on a man's beauty?

>gf of a year says she wants more sex
>try to initiate sex by getting extra handsy during cuddling/kissing
>she lets me finger her or rub her clit for like half a minute before she grabs my wrist and lightly moves my hand away
>I take it as she isn't in the mood for sex activities and go back to cuddling

>she gets mad we dont have as much sex as she wants
>repeat forever

what do I do

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>>18610467
I can honestly see her point of view. The first time you two hang out in a long time you need a ride from her. You could have arranged for another way to get home but you didn't. While that's not your intentions, it really does come off that you're using her as your chauffeur. If you didn't inform her that you needed a ride in advance, that was really inconsiderate, regardless of if she had the time to drive you or not.

>>18611290
Doesn't affect my opinion of him. Neither of those things changes the base personality that makes him, him.
>>18611356
Though, it seems you might have mental health issues, and if I were your friend then I would be concerned about this. I used to have zero interest in sex or relationships for about 10 years until I was properly diagnosed and put on the right medication. Now I have a functioning libido, even though I still have a lack of interest in relationships, since that's part of my base personality. It also sounds like you need therapy due to low self esteem. Get some help, dude.

>>18611799
100% Turn off, and I've ditched really good fuck buddies for this. No amount of other qualities will make up for the fact that you're boring.

>>18611908
Not by itself. If you have a fulfilling life already, then good sex can be the icing on the cake, whether it's casual or from a loving partner.


>>18613621
Attractiveness is subjective. I've had guys interested in me, and I'm a Fatty McFatFat Tomboy who dresses in men's clothing and boots. All you really need is good hygiene, look clean/kept up, and have the type of personality a guy is interested (again, subjective). You probably just need some confidence and maybe a little something to make yourself look "kept up", like having shaped eyebrows and clean smooth skin.

>>18613973
she wants you to be more forceful.keep going and tell her that you want to even if she says no. if she keeps saying you no then remind her you that she says she wants more sex, so you're giving her more sex. if she says no STILL then ask her what she means when she says she wants more sex

>>18613982
your name doesn't start with a K does it

>>18614007
No, it starts with a vowel.

girls

should i apologize for texting her too much? we've both shown some interest in each other, and i let it be known that i'm interested in her. she also has a boyfriend. should i just let it go?

>>18614009
ok, your post made me think you were a different thicc medicated tomboy that swats interested dudes like flies

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Ladies!
Say you're going on a first date with a guy. Food trucks and a walk on the beach, then probably boba and dessert after. Would you want the guy to dress casually, like a hoodie and some grey pants, or a bit nicer?

I ask because I'm in the situation listed above, and I'm not sure how I should dress. If it helps, the girl I'll be meeting is more on the introverted side, so I'll be doing a lot of the initiating.

>>18614031
go for casual

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>>18614038
So something like a black hoodie or a bomber jacket, grey pants, and black printed shirt underneath would be cool? I don't wanna overdress, but I don't wanna look under either.

>>18614046
sounds good to me,I feel like casual clothing makes things feel more personal and cozy. I approve

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>>18614016
That does sound oddly specific, yikes.

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>>18614064
Sweet, I appreciate it.

>>18614070
you're not an art student too, are you?

>>18614012
>has a boyfriend

Walk away. Don't apologise, just leave it.

>>18614046
Go jacket over hoodie.

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>>18614123
Might be a bit much. I'm on the smaller end of the heavy spectrum, so I don't wanna add too much padding to what's already there. Might even forgo the hoodie and go with a pseudo-baseball jersey, kinda like pic related, except all black with white text on the back. I did think about that option though.

>>18614121
But.. I don't want to...

>>18608903
Guys

Why would you look up a girl on facebook? There's a guy who's way older than me and married so he turned me down but I always wondered what he would taste like. I think I last saw him two years ago and haven't stopped thinking about him. He recently looked me up a few times on social media. I'm hoping he's starting to come around.

>>18614031
Don't wear jeans, shorts, or graphic tees. As long as you put effort into what you wear it'll be appreciated. I've gone on dates where the guy completely under-dressed, made me feel over-dressed, and led me to think they really didn't care at all. If you don't take the first date seriously enough to dress semi-decently, when will you be serious?

Dress shirt and slacks are nice and easy to pull off. The stuff you listed after is really good too.

>>18614276
I know preselection is a thing, but try to contain your slutiness and find your own bf. Cheaters and their enablers are ew people.

>>18614276
Unless he's already divorced don't give in to the cock cravings and refuse. That you shouldn't approach him goes without saying, but if his marriage is going through a rough patch you should help him by keeping him away from temptation, not by offering him a new hole.
Assuming he isn't visiting your profile several times for a rare non-romantic reason, the fact that he hasn't messaged you yet means he doesn't want to cross that line just yet. He turned you down and your profile probably says you're still single, so if he wanted to hit you up he'd done so already.
Even if his marriage is beyond repair, you could at least have the courtesy of waiting for it to be officially over so you won't have a broken marriage on your conscience.

>>18614276
We do it to learn more about your personality, how you look at different angles, and generally any huge red flags. I don't know how you can tell if he's looking you up considering places like FB don't let you know who's looking you up.

What are trends that are common amongst people around you (opposite gender or not) that are meant to look appealing / sexy, but that you find planely unattractive?

For me it's long fingernails and unnatural hair dye, like turquoise or grey amongst girls.

>>18614853
Long fingernails, painted fingernails in bright, obnoxious colors, the whole half-shaved head thing