how does one acquire a girlfriend
if you have to ask, you don't
>>18608539
oh okay
>>18608530
Social events, friends, work, going places, online, etc.
Then talk to them like they are actual humans and find one the there is mutual connection.
how does one aquire boyfriend
>>18608546
what if you're not capable of talking to people like they're actual humans
>>18608602
Then practice until you do.
>>18608602
Then you won't be able to get a girlfriend or to keep one, because they are, you know, actual humans. Time to find other goals.
>>18608530
Why would u even want one
>>18608602
you find someone just as anti social as yourself which i've seen happen plenty of times
>>18608619
because my brain forces me to for some reason
Every gf I've had is by coincidence and from building up a friendship before hand. If you try to stress over it or analyze every girl as a potential gf you're going to look desperate and people see that shit a mile away.
>>18608602
People have already said pracitse, but one good way to practrise is to join some kind of club
>>18608530
stop thinking of woman as an object you obtain. that's how you get laid but not how you develop relationships.
>>18608602
then what's the point?
Well, you either keep to yourself like a fucking faggot and hope that some girl will be interested enough to initiate a conversation with you which is quite unlikely or you can man up and behave as an actual human being. Watch this shit, it is a simple and a dope explanation at the same time. https://youtu.be/0rSb_QD08vw