How do I not answer a question about where my apartment is?

and your question is on how to not tell him where you live now?
best would be to actually report him. he's sexually abused you and probably others.
if you can't bring yourself to do that, just straight up tell him that you won't tell him if he ever asks. he will know exactly why and not ask again if he isn't a moron who wants to go to jail.

I have avoided being around him in private ever since then, leave early come back late, which was easy: catching up with family and friends now that I'm back, looking for work, getting college / apartment stuff worked out.

I found an apartment, application approved, and my move in day is two weeks from now. Sooner or later, he is going to ask me where my new apartment is, saying something like he will want to visit me. Of course I don't want him to visit me, I don't even want the bastard to know where I live!

But this career molester is thought highly of in the community. If I suddenly move out while he's at work and block his phone number, everyone will not understand. "Why would you do that, anon, he's been so good to you."

I DO NOT WANT ANYBODY TO KNOW I WAS SEXUALLY MOLESTED BY A 60 YEAR OLD! People will never look at me the same again, I will always have that label in their eyes.

I say / do anything even slightly negative:
> oh he's struggling because he was molested

I work hard and make real achievements:
> he's just doing that to compensate because he was molested

He's going to keep asking if I use some kind of "temporary situational" reason why I can't tell him the address.

> I'm still deciding between 3 apartments, so I don't know which one it will be
Eventually, that excuse will expire. I can see it already, "Hey bud, the fall semester has started a week already, so I guess you're moved in by now. Tell me where you're at and let's celebrate!"

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>and your question is on how to not tell him where you live now?

yes, that's my first question for a series of steps I will take to address this situation.

>best would be to actually report him.

What's going to happen, really? Without evidence, it's my word against his, and he is held to high esteem in the community. That's so typical of molesters, they build up their public image so that nobody will suspect them.

>he will know exactly why and not ask again if he isn't a moron who wants to go to jail.

I don't want to do anything that will tip him off that I am on to him. He has been doing this to many young men over at least the past 15 years. I am acquaintances with some of his past victims. The local ymca is one place where he chooses his targets.

THIS ENDS WITH ME!

I am a soldier and I'm still a man! I can run away and move on with my life, but he will continue to prey on unsuspecting young men.

These are my goals:

> he is arrested and found guilty of sexually molesting
> he does some amount of jail time
> the entire community knows the truth, his reputation is ruined


What is the best way to accomplish this? I feel that, if I don't have evidence, then it becomes my word against his, and everyone thinks he's an angel, it would be very hard for people to believe the truth.

Do I contact past victims and convince them all to testify?

Or do I set up hidden cameras in his house, allow one more person to fall prey (may god forgive me) and then use this undeniable video evidence to put him in jail? That seems like a surefire way to accomplish my goal, but I could see the court / lawyer be like, "oh but he didn't know he was being recorded, that's invasion of privacy, so this evidence can't be used". You dumbass, this is video proof of an evil man and you have the gaul to cry about invasion of privacy!?