Been trying to get closer to this one girl I work with. She's super cute and we have several similar interests. She's super into Marvel and we went and saw Spiderman when it first came out, then spent a few hours after the movie just walking and talking. However I was pretty awkward is asking. Now she has me borrowing the Marvel movies she has that I haven't seen yet. I've been keeping contact with her and we hung out one on one again last Monday, but both times I couldn't bring myself to be blunt and say I wanted a date. When I asked her to hang out with me on Monday, I was shaking real bad and half my face was hidden behind cardboard I was holding, but she still agreed and we had fun. She's pretty smart, and she said she would like to do it again sometime when we parted ways on Monday. So I don't doubt she could've picked up on what I was trying to do.
I'll see her a bit this weekend at work, I wanted to either/both A. Be blunt and tell her what I actually wanted both when we saw the movie and we spent time together on Monday & B. Ask her out to dinner at a nice place nearby that does candlelight dinners. Do you think she already knows what my intent was? How would I go about explaining to her both I wanted them to be dates and asking her out to dinner?
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So, for one, it's rare that "Hey wanna date?" works. There's like....literally no one doing this outside of middle school.
You need to keep taking her out. Go places with her, show her a good time. Get to know her, what to say and what not to. Eventually it will happen if it was ever going to.
Women almost always have an intuition about what men want from them. Men have the problem of never thinking they understand. If she went out with you, odds are she was interested enough to see what would happen.
Be cool, be you. Ask her out as many times as it takes until it feels right. It has to start casual. If you start by asking her do "be your girlfriend", odds are it won't work AND you'll have to continue working with her.