Change myself for her?

No she won't, find another girl

>>18608023
If she bond with a man to the point of falling in love with him while already in a relationship, she is not gf material, the same thing will happen to you, to her next bf, and to the next one, its never ending cicle. Find a woman who understand the boundaries of a relationship and accept who you are, don't change your substantial traits for anyone!(i even doubt its possible t b h) also, don't chase taken women, nothing good come out of it, have some self respect.

You're disgusting for trying anything with a girl who's taken. It's shows you're weak and lack both morals and respect.

She's disgusting for cheating, same reasons. She won't be loyal to you or anyone else. It's a cycle that continues, the only difference is if she ever gets caught again.

Block her, and work on being something other than a week piece of shit.

>>18608471
This so much. The only victim is her current BF. She will hurt you OP if you do this.

Should have omitted that part about her relationship. Guys, I still don't know what I am doing there, but it is entirely different from what you currently think. And the stuff you commented on was not the topic of my question. So if you would please answer to that question?

To say a few things about that stuff: She never cheated on anyone, we have never had sex nor even really kissed. She is morally supporting him because he has the worst kind of depression right know and she won't just leave him in there, if at all. I am only! her best friend and we know about each others very strong feelings, that's it. Don't judge about something you just assume, please.

>>18608023
You should of course strive to etter yourself, but don't change yourself for other people.

First of all, if you're sensitive to criticism don't even bother posting here, you're not always going to read what you want to, try /r/relationships next time.

>>18609381
>So if you would please answer to that question?
>will she stop to love the person I am to become, as he will be in some parts different from the person I was when she fell in love with me?
We have a contradiction here, you claim she criticizes substantial traits of you, but at the same time, you're affraid that changing would make her lose interest on you?! If i had to pick one, i wouldn't change at all, not worth the risk, focus on your depression, this should be your priority
>>18609386
>She never cheated on anyone, we have never had sex nor even really kissed.
Emotional cheating is still cheating, you wouldn't it like if you were in her boyfriend's shoes, don't even try to imply otherwise.
>I am only! her best friend and we know about each others very strong feelings, that's it. Don't judge about something you just assume, please.
Believe it or not, you have nothing unique with this girl, many have been there before, what we assume, is what we've seen many times before, here, and some irl in my case, i must warn you that the outcome is mostly far from what is idealized, but feel free to ignore if you want to.

>>18609386

You're having an emotional affair. Period. It shows a severely lacking amount of morals and respect.

That aside, you emotionally immature shit, you should never change who you are for someone beyond micro improvements in say, scheduling or budgeting.