TL;DR - Should I kiss my childhood crush, even if all we can have is a brief summer fling?
I'm 24, female. I am back at my parents place for the summer. I'll go back to my town (2 hours away by car) in 3 weeks.
There's a guy who lives across the street. We grew up together and had quite a crush on each other for years.
We used to kiss and cuddle whenever we were alone together, but we never actually dated because we were autistic. We eventually went to high school and moved on with our lives. I was obsessed with him for 2 years, tho.
He had a car accident last week - broke an arm, has lots of (infected) scratches on his legs and face.
His parents are out of town for the rest of the month, so I've been going over to help him out (bring him food, help him clean, wash his hair, help him bathe, medicate his wounds).
I've been staying over almost every night and we got a lot of chemistry still.
He tried to kiss me and told me he'd like to go out with me.
Should I go for it and enjoy a small summer fling? Or the risk of developing feelings is too big?
>>18607826
>Oh no, anything but a 2 hour car ride to see someone i clearly have feelings for! Whatever will i do? Its not like he expressly showed interest in me to the point of trying to kiss me and asked for a date, and we are childhood soulmates.
Whats the harm even if it is a summer fling, do you have someone else lined up? Maybe chad?
Just go for it
Even if there are feelings it will still be fun
You can talk about what to do once summer is over
If you don't you'll keep wondering what if
I say, never piss away good chemistry
>>18607826
>>18607826
Do it
>>18607944
I don't.
I just don't think we are a good match on the long run, even if he is absolutely awesome.
>>18608552
I'm just scared of getting hurt.
>>18608567
>>18608589
Heh. I will.
>>18608615
I just......
I'm just........
Such a gross term. You know why you are using it. You are looking for an answer, and someone said what you were looking for. Now you are too scared to follow through, because you just........
Dont be a pussy, you pussy. No just. Do it.