Advice?

Literally this made no sense.

>>18607065
This is a blue board. I'd delete this image.

>>18607067
i guess im a retard i give up

>>18607065
how old is you?
if you're young no need to get married, but don't dump her either, just see how shit ends up
if you're like 30 though just marry her

>>18607065
I don't know if you'll see this due to you being wasted but I know what you mean. You essentially feel like that her hoeness was used on other dudes. Meaning, she probably implied that she did nasty things with other dudes, like squatting down while bobbing her head on your dick, just being nasty. Just an example, but odds are good she just simply isn't attracted to you like that.

As for what you can do, you could assert yourself a bit more, get into better shape that she would want to be that slutty with you. Or talk to other chicks that are better looking than her to have her try harder. It's up to you.

>>18607094
25 lol

>>18607144

not that wasted! she says shes never done a bunch of the stuff we do. She lets me cum on her face and things but sometimes i think she just is letting me cause she knows i like it not really enjoying it like me.

we live together so talking to other girls would be suicide i think

>>18607165
she has just had sex with a bunch of guys and had an ffm threesome shit i wish she would do that with me

>>18607094
why just marry her if im 30 does shit really get that bad am i fucked if i don't marry her she really does love me and is perfect wifey cooking cleaning and cares about me. aren't all girls like that though eventually?

>>18607176
That's a decision you need to make for yourself. More importantly, are those the qualities YOU want in a partner for the long run. As for your other post, if you want a threesome (2 chicks) then speak to her about it. If she loves you like that, she WILL consider it. Even if she doesn't like chicks like that, she'll think about the idea.

What other things has she done that she hasn't done with you?

>>18607195
Yea but I love her and i don't want to cheat on her when we were not so serious i asked her once if she would help me complete my sexual bucket list which included having a 3some and she wasn't interested and says stuff like i don't want to share you with anybody which i get and not sure if i would like sharing her or not. But IDK she just paints this picture that she was so fun flirty and sexual like how she ahd sex with 2 brothers in the same night seperately but she doesn't seem so spontaneous and sexual in our day to day lives

>>18607206
It sounds like she's trying to settle down She could love you, and honestly not want to share with you. However, she is trying to downplay her hoe tendencies.

By the way, it won't be cheating if you both come to an agreement on a threesome (An actual threesome, 2 chicks and yourself). Also, take what she said about the brothers with a grain of salt. I'm a skeptic, but I think she probably had sex with them at the same time.

Either way, if you're looking for spontaneity, go out with her, fuck her brains out somewhere in public where there is a slight risk in you two getting caught. Drag her to a stairwell and fuck her. Or finger her in a park. She'll be open to other ideas afterwards. At this point she doesn't see you as a freaky nasty sexual being.

>>18607065
Most men are insanely sexually possessive and that includes her potential lovers but especially her past. The really insane thing is a man's desire to know detail of her past sexual encounters so the man can compare himself with her former lovers. That is more perverse than anything the woman has ever done experimentally or in passion. That perversity kills love, it kills passion, it kills contentment and it literally can kill the woman.

OP you are the partner with the problem here not your gf and she needs to get far away from you before you do anymore harm.

>>18607265
OP here

elaborate please. Your first sentence i don't understand. What do you mean kill her?

If you think I have a problem tell me more what am i doing thats harmful

>>18607065
What do you want?
Her to be more kinky? Like anal, bdsm ect. Or are you more in to sharing, gangbang, cuckold, ect.

If you ask her about any if this, whats her response?

>>18607065
My GF wasn't a slut but I lost my virginity to her and she's been with two other men.

The jealousy drives me nuts sometimes. As much as I like her, I can't consider marriage. I need more experience with women.

I feel your struggle.

You'll know when you're ready to sacrifice all for your girl

>>18607283
What i really want is to have awesome sex with her all the time and the sex is more about mei can fuck her face and shit

. sort of weird shes the only girl ive been with where she only gets off when shes on top which is kinf od emasculating to me ive gotten her off while fucking her before but its just really really rare. so usually sex is a little fucking then she rides then when shes done im so close that i jsut cum on her or she swallows it

im a shit tier communicator and i don't know why its a problem in our relationship its like im fucking retarded and forget to talk to her about things.

>>18607295
Okey!
This isn't a big problem i think. And when you are done with this phase, you will have best sex life you can think of!

If I get you right, you girl is the best kind. A sexuak little devil.
Now, any tool you use is as good as the person who wield it.

If you want to mouth fuck her while she is tied up or spank her really hard while pushing her face down in the pillows, then it's up for you to do so.

If she is you first. Then take it slow. Start small.

You don't need to go bananas the first time

>>18607277
I'm saying it is perverse to delve into a womans sexual past in the detail you have when it eats you alive. Nothing you can do will erase the imagery and every time you have her perform for you what she performed for another you will compare and contrast and it solves nothing. You demanding her to resolve something no human can change will wear her down and you will begin to punish her if you haven't already. That punishment can be emotional or physical.

>>18607293
yea im jealous too but also for me its like i inherently have this compulsion for new different pussy but i don't actually want it i just want to love this girl and have sex and life with her forever.

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>>18607265
>That is more perverse than anything the woman has ever done experimentally or in passion.
No, a man wanting to know that his gf has fuck a dozen black guys at once is not as bad as fucking a dozen black guys at once lmao.

OP HERE

How bad would it be to leave this thread and let her read it

>>18607396
Pretty fucking bad.

Also, I kinda just skimmed through the thread since your first post was hard to understand, but have you actually just TALKED to her about different sexual things you want to do with her? I mean there's nothing wrong with discussing ideas in the bedroom. And sex counselors are a thing. Maybe she's ashamed of her past and treats you differently because you're special to her.

>>18607396
Like I said you want to punish her for your problem.

>>18607346
For what reason does he want to know. Not need to know the guy wants to know. That is perverse she having sex before knowing he existed is natural.

>>18607409
Discussing things a couple wants to do I get but taking an inventory of everything she did and with whom before she even knew him and that be the list of what OP wants to do is just crazy.

>>18607441
well how do i fix this then help me

>>18607536
First you must honestly decide if you can live with this or not and have the courage to follow through.

If you decide you can live with this then you leave her out of this because you will always resort to resentment and retribution. You shut the fuck up and if you can't have sex with her without thinking of her responding to other men or want to demand sex acts she has performed in the past then you don't have sex with her at all.

>>18607560
I really love your responses.
My boyfriend has a similar problem but not nearly as bad. He has his moments but it's never more than that. I have felt like pure dog shit for previously being promiscuous, because it was someone before him. There's no way for me to just make him feel better besides telling him that I do love him very much, things like this don't matter at the end of the day, aren't worth arguing about and simply isn't fair. He understands but you can only control your actions, not your feelings.
Besides radically accepting this, OP can improve himself mentally and/ or physically. Boosting your self esteem and confidence. It's always good to feel better about yourself.

>>18607586
Being jealous for your girlfriends exes and past sex life is all about low self-esteem