Hi 21 m here. So I just lost my virginity to my new gf yesterday.
The 4 play was nice and fun, and the actual intercourse was pretty amazing, but before we fucked she was giving me oral and it just felt kind of weird desu.
I was really hard during the 4 play but as soon as she started gagging on my dick and doing this weird pulling motion I started to go soft. I got pretty anxious at that point and pulled her towards me and we started making out again, which brought my boner back then we fucked.
I know porn is just a fabrication to what sex is supposed to be, but I just thought blowjobs were supposed to feel amazing. She did do a couple things I liked but for the most part it made me pretty nervous having my dick rub against her teeth. Then she did this thing with her tongue that literally felt like sandpaper on my dick and idk if it was her tongue or my dick that felt like that. Is this how its supposed to feel?
She seemed to be enjoying herself but now I’m kinda nervous about getting another blowjob from her. What should I do?
you made out with your girlfriend after she sucked your dick?
>>18606232
>she started gagging on my dick and doing this weird pulling motion I started to go soft. I got pretty anxious at that point and pulled her towards me and we started making out again
Ha, gay. You kissed your girlfriend after she sucked your dick, you flaming homosexual.
OP, she's inexperienced. It could make her insecure bringing it up which is why you should approach her nicely so her feefees don't get hurt, but you should communicate with her and tell her what feels good and what doesn't. If you don't tell her she'll go on thinking what she's doing is good. Don't tell her that your dick is being ripped apart by her disgusting horse teeth, or that her sand paper tongue rubs your dick raw, or that her awkward pulling on your penis nearly caused you to go soft. If I had a partner who showed me how to give oral properly I'd appreciate their honesty.
She won't hit you with the teeth, or if she does it won't be that painful and you get to demonstrate your alpha with a bit of discipline and correction
As for sandpaper tongue, She's either dehydrated, bad oral hygiene
Or a cat, which is fine too
>>18606282
Well I had already sucked her dick so I think it was okay
>>18606282
>>18606296
>Ha, gay. You kissed your girlfriend after she sucked your dick, you flaming homosexual.
Is it really that bad?lol
But yeah I hear you, communication is key. I guess another question I have is; does there come a point where theres TOO much communication or nah?
>>18606302
>get to demonstrate your alpha with a bit of discipline and correction
Ok, I can do that!
>>18606322
Positive reinforcment. Tell her good when she does it right, and put your hands in her hair, but don't push her.
Also, try to find out if she's drinking enough water. That's probably why her tongue is scratchy. Don't come out and say it, though.
>>18606232
>lost my virginity
Are you uncut? Maybe your dick was just oversensitive to that amount of intense touch, to the point where it felt weird and not enjoyable. If that's the case the problem will go away naturally over time if you keep having sex.
>>18606345
Right on.
That's weird I never knew that was a condition of dehydration. Come to think of it I never really see her drink that much water though.
>>18606352
What if I'm circumcised?
Dry lips are how I always know I'm dehydrated. The tongue can get nasty if not brushed
You need to take the lead for her to enjoy going to bed with you.
It's not gonna last forever so you get to fuck around with this one a bit. You may end up closing your eyes while fucking a whale in 20 years, thinking about that 21 y/o you got to do whatever you wanted to
Don't ask for permission, don't be timid, she's an adult
>>18606363
Thanks anon. I was being pretty timid, I wont be next time.
Any guy who won't kiss a girl after she's sucked his dick needs to be single and use the time to reflect, fuck.
Yeah I put it in my girls ass and she still blows me. Fuck I even make out with her.
>>18606433
this isn't about you
I like the sound of women screaming
>>18606302
classic
>>18606232
It probably wans't her tongue itself, but that she sucked REALLY hard at the same time
Has had it happen to myself too, instant bonerbreaker
Also teeth is just lack of practice, next time say "oww! your teeth are scraping my dick!!" and she will try to blow you without accidently scraping.
Remember, good sex is all about letting your partner know what you like
I had a girl ride me cowgirl, and she started gyrating too far backwards (my dick bends up), so it felt like she was breaking my dick
She was surprised and told me her ex-bf loved it when she rode him like that. I guess he had a downwards curving dick.
Also, some seem to think that rubbing their thumb on the my dickhead feels nice for me (which is the exact opposite, my dick only likes direct contact with anything if it is lubed up and preferable some kind of orifice)
Different strokes for different folks, let them know what you like instead of taking the pain as if sex is supposed to be unpleasant
>>18606232
When I was 15, I got a toothy blowjob. Her braces cut me open, blood everywhere etc. Tell her to sort that shit out. Just tell her how you prefer it. It'll be more fun for her if you're enjoying it.
Yeah it's weird, I got my first blowjob last week too but like it was not as people say it's cut to be, either that or my girlfriend is just shit at sucking dick. Like it felt meh, and fucking hell everytime she put my dick in her mouth she just pulled my foreskin RIIIGGGHHHTTTT back and that shit almost turned me off completely, shit hurt