>28 M, currently seeing two women
> Join a rec league, meet 31 F. Seems like a flirt, friend says she's crazy, his buddy had issues with her.
>I'm single, and getting no play from the other two girls, but she's flirting so I ask her on a date
>Instead meet her at a bar, go back to hers, finger her outside and then sex. Best I've ever had.
>Pillow talk, asks me not to ghost her, let her know if I want to ever end it.
>Sounds good to me.
> We text here and there. Meetup for sex a few times, or for drinks with her co workers.
>One week at the bar, she seems cold and distant. Talking to another guy. Hurt, but I've been doing the same, might as well go look at other women myself.
> Text her that weekend, no dice.
> Next week meet a new girl on her birthday, go home with her. We do some bday drugs, and fuck all night, and in the morning after waking up. Lots of fun.
> check my phone, saw I called her and the 31 last night at the bar. Must have fat fingered while calling to save birthday girls number.
> Decide not to call or text to apologize, would be awkward.
>Rec league meet, she's actively avoiding me. Friends with my female teammates though.
>This past weekend, take a trip to another city. Get hammered drunk from day and night drinking, and drunk text her.
>"Look I don't know what I did that pissed you off, but you were the one that asked not to be ghosted and now I am. I'll leave you alone at the league"
>Fuckingidiot.jpg
>Keep run the cringe through my head, wondering what I did. Was it the other girls? The call? Just no connection? Etc.
>Check FB, she blocked me.
>Holy shit, am I that clingy?
I know I fucked up with that text, and should've taken the hint from the week of silence before that. Still, it's nagging at my mind and I don't know how to not feel bad about failing here. I guess I want people to agree she went a bit crazy so I can push it on her. Maybe you guys would agree, and if not, how the hell do I not worry about it? I feel like Dennis in IASIP...
>>18604486
how do you just meet new people like a girl on her birthday, and then on the same day fuck her?? you have nothing to worry about, lol
>>18604486
You were a little autistic, but nothing to worry about. Happens to everyone. Just learn from this, don't be a clingy bitch. You already knew this girl was cray, idk why you felt the need to try and out-crazy her. Just ignore her, getting people to agree she was crazy is stupid as fuck, and the kind of shit a bitch would pull. The only people that need that kind of validation from others are pussies. Sack up and move on
>>18604758
Because fucking also feels good for girls?
Like if you're an average as fuck person overall then that means there are a ton of average as fuck girls whom are easily within your reach. Females are 50% of the population, as long as you're actively making an effort chances are high that you're going to end up with at least a few of them.
>>18604786
Don't worry, OP.
>>18604758
This comment was cringier than your whole story.
>>18604758
Stroke of luck really. I knew the bartender, she's great and if I remember right was talking to her while eyeing the new girl. The new girl eventually told me was trying not to look my way, so I know I had her just off looks alone but looks don't last...
>>18604776
I get I was clingy, but idk the sex was so good I felt there was a connection... Hell I googled 'can a relationship be built on great sex' I'm just frustrated that I've been with enough girls to be happy with fucking, but I want more than bieng a dick. I want more than sex, bieng a tool, and the girl who gave me hope struck me down hard and fast.
Is that it you think? Do I really just keep fucking until one sticks?