So, I asked my friend out finally. We have been acting like a couple lately. Holding hands, leaning on each other, being physical. We have a very love/hate relationship where we constantly tease and make fun of each other and don't mean it.
Well, I finally bit the bullet and asked if we are more than friends. He asked me if I wanted to be, and I asked him if he wanted to be. He said he doesn't know and isn't good at making "executive decisions" about relationships.
So, I asked him if he wants to go out. He said he needs to think about it, and if he could think about it tomorrow. I of course said yes. Within a couple of mins we were back to acting like we normally do.
Now, in my personal experience, asking to think about = them trying to figure out the best way to say no.
The thing is, I'm apparently his type. He has a p specific list, and I'm like that entire list. And he's bi, so that's all good.
So is all hope lost? Or is it possible he really just needs to think it over? Have you experienced or know of someone needing to think over being asked out and then saying yes? Will I get any sleep tonight? Probably not, but I need to talk about this and no one I know is awake right now.
Oh no.
No no no no.
Where's that suicide prevention hotline? Does anybody have the number?
Being bi is gay
This is pretty much exactly how I got my first girlfriend. She thought about it, decided yes.
If he's already hanging all over you, then he at least likes you.
If you already have a friendship with a person, starting a romantic relationship is a decision that requires some thought, because it always carries the risk that the friendship will end. It's totally normal that he might want some time to think about it.
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Boys fucking boys is one thing but being in a relationship something totally different. If he's bi (secretly gay but prefers society see him straight) he is saving a relationship for a woman.