Hello /adv/
I'm not on the board often but I hope you'll help me with this:
I met a girl 10 days ago and it's the first time a girl is ok with going out with me. The thing is that she's responding to my texts almost 2 or 3 hours after I send them and doesn't seem to care about me that much (even if she just says she's too lazy to answer any text from anyone). Today I did not text her and she asked me if anything was wrong for the first time so I'm struggling to see if she really cares or not.
What should I do ? It's driving me crazy.
TL;DR A girl doesn't seem to care about me even if she says she does and I'm freaking out.
>INB4 sorry for the bad English it's not my first language.
>>18601991
have you tried calling her instead of texting? why do you think she should drop everything and keep her phone in her hand at all times to respond to you?
>>18601998
I've tried but she's busy most of the time and she always reading the texts but not responding (that's what's upsetting me)
I know how you feel, I also overthink everything and tend to get anxious over how people feel about me. But you need to realize that acting clingy and needy is a red flag and a turn off for most people, especially if you don't know them well. If a good friend started texting me all the time and bugging me about not answering fast enough I'd just give them more attention and assure them that I care, but if someone I barely know did that, I'd probably be creeped out and take distance. You only just met her, give it time. You can stress all you want, but stop bothering her with it. You can be upset that she's not answering you instantly, but don't go whine at her about it. She still responds to your texts, 2-3 hours is nothing. Who cares if it takes a while. She has a life. Don't blow your chances by being way too clingy and seeming like you have no life besides her. Don't act like the kind of person who will eventually create drama about every little thing she does and gets jealous daily. If you've already talked about this and she said everything is fine then stop obsessing.
>>18602079
Thank you my friend. That's what I needed to hear.