Relationship with a 30+ year old woman

>>18600838
If you seriously believe having children beyond 30 is cause for birth complications, you shouldn't be with a 30 year old. Grow up.

>>18600877
t. roastie

>>18600838
How do you know she wants kids or marriage? I mean, avoiding someone for things they MIGHT want is pretty stupid.

That said, take her age, divide by 2, and add 7. If you are at that age or older, you should be fine insofar as maturity level goes.

>>18600838
Girls at this age have a serious problem. They were unable to keep a man ultill 30s, panic and go bonkers. You need to spend at least 3 years with someone to get to know them.
They dont wanna waint anymore cause they get "old and no kids"

I mean CMAAAN...30 years and attractive and no guy kept her?! My advice: you should try. Get to know her, have some good quality sex but don't rush down. Observe her..i'm sure you should see some red flags here and there after a while

>>18600883
I'm 28.

So not much of an age difference really.

>>18600892
Teenager virgin giving advice detected.

>>18600894
Huh? That's no issue at all then. There is literally nothing that would prevent you from being happy together and maybe even have kids one day.

>>18600894
I like how you dodged my question on how you knew if she even wanted kids. If she doesn't, its a non-issue.

>>18600894
i tought you meat A REAL DIFFERENCE. Like 20 or something

>>18600899
I don't know if she does or not. It says so right there in the op.

I probably will date her and see how things go. Cheers.

>>18600894
if you wanna have a real relationship with a mature woman, go for it.
If you wanna bang some more dumb chiks that live with ther parents then stay away from her

>>18600904
t. dried up 30 year old roastie

>>18600838
How old are you? I read a news article where it said younger male sperm has a higher chance of fertilizing 30+ eggs.

>>18600907
t. teenager kissless virgin

SHE DIDN'T DENY BEING A ROASTIE
HAHAHAHAHAHAA

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>>18600877
>>18600897
>>18600928

OP find younger girl if you can. Try 25. Leave her for older gentelmen.

>>18600838

Ask her: I'am poor. Is this a limit?

>>18600969
>sometimes i message my ex
Why is that a bad thing?

>>18600838
>Are the chances of children being born with problems actually very high if the woman is in her mid 30s, or is it just a meme?
It's a meme.

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>>18601044
That means you are not over him/her and will drop your current partner in matter of seconds when your ex allows you to return.

There isnt probably bigger red flag than this. And it is also a symptom of pic related. We arent jealous without a reason.

>>18601049
If by meme you mean scientifically proven, then you are right.

http://www.parenting.com/article/pregnancy-at-20-30-40

>>18601053
>That means you are not over him/her and will drop your current partner in matter of seconds when your ex allows you to return.
Are you telling me that people don't keep in touch with their exes? Because I'm still friends with most of mine, I don't see why I'd be jealous of her doing the same thing.

>Back up man
Were these 2000 women verified or was this an anonymous online poll. Because you and I both know what kind of horseshit anonymous internet people do when you give them weird surveys and zero accountability.

>>18601064
I am boy, so maybe my opinion is worthless to you, but if my gf kept in touch with her exes, i would either make her drop the contact or drop her. My guess is a lot of girls see it the same way. After all girls hate competition.

But you have easy solution to your problem. Dont tell your gf that you slept with these girls you still chat and see them. But then you build relationship on lies.

And yes, people in surveys can lie easily. Still most of them wont because there is no point in doing so.

>>18601044

Because he wants to fuck you, and you will too sooner or later

Love her stay with her makes you happy stay with her, but pick wisely you only live once.

Last couple women I dated were over 40. I gotta say, it wasn't the ara ara milf fantasy I was expecting. It was like dating 25-year-olds with more interesting stories.

OP, you're 28. Time to stop worrying about what "might be" on a Chinese cartoon doll forum and find out for yourself. I know plenty of women at 30 who aren't planning for kids, and I know plenty who are desperate. You need to talk out your feelings on the subject.

But the posters claiming she should have been able to "hold down a man" are idiots who will probably end up in a loveless marriage that collapses into divorce. Marriage shouldn't be like buying a car, where you know you need one so you settle for the best value within your budget. It's a lifelong decision, and if that takes you into your 30s, 40s, or you never find it, it's better than making a compromise.

>>18600930
Resorting to ad hominem attacks is pathetic. Whether she is a toastie, a roastie, or whatever else you wanna call her is irrelevant to judge her advice. Intelligent people evaluate the opinion and not the person expressing the opinion.

>>18600838
>still attractive
She's 30 not 60. There's not much difference between a 25 year old and a 30 year old in terms of appearance.

Before you worry about birth complications I suggest you grow up a bit mentally.
I swear people on this website are a waste of oxygen

>>18600894
>28
>this fucking dumb

>>18600838
>Are the chances of children being born with problems actually very high if the woman is in her mid 30s
The risk is there just like any pregnancy but it's higher especially if there is family history.
However with new medical technologies and with proper healthy diet you can prevent most of it.
My mother gave birth to me when she was 33yo and that was in the late 80s.

ITT ROASTIES

>>18600838
My mother was 39 and I didn't have any deformities. Maybe mild undiagnosed autism considering I'm on this site, but nothing diagnosed.

>>18600899
With advancements of medical science many people are doing it at 40, 50 and even 60. I don't mean many as in a "few a cases", I mean they are doing it everywhere and it's generally fine.

Places like the Philippines and Bangladesh still try to do it before 30.

> inb4 American's are charged 50 billion dollars for it.

>>18600838
>I know a girl who is 30, still very attractive and is interested in me.


>girl.

>30.

Fuck you're stupid, op. I hope cancer comes in the middle of the night, sodomizes ur anus and sets up shop in it, because you deserve it for calling 30 year old females girls. They're practically old women at that point.

Wow, so much sexism itt. Women (not "girls") are still both beautiful and fertile right up until 50 and even later.

>>18602421
Asshole

>>18602573
>>18602563

LOL. that's fucking stupid. Even in Japan with all their titties and porn they call women past 24 christmas cake.

Everyone knows that women rapidly lose value past their teen years. That's why they use age of consent to keep the competition at bay for old women with saggy tits, and by that I mean 30 year olds.

They can be fun to ride, but they're past their prime.

Females mature sooner than males, which is proven. That's why they go downhill sooner.

>>18602573
For starters, I wouldn't even consider getting a mail-order bride from another country if she was over 20. If I have to spend money for a green card chaser, I might as well get the best possible model.

30 is the perfect age cause they get desperate

>>18603246
Virgin.

>>18600838
Roastie
The degenerated condition of the average sexually-liberated western female's vagina, as a result of riding the cock carousel through her teens and 20's before hitting the wall and trying to get one of the beta bux -- who she denied while it was still tight and she still looked good -- to put a ring on her finger and lick her recycled Arby's; which he will, because the world is full of thirsty beta enablers stupid enough to marry women who have had their capacity to love atomized into obliteration over a decade of getting shaken like she's in a paint shaker and then painted by cocks whose names she doesn't even remember.
Beta Bux Bill: I'm so happy to be marrying her. I had such a crush on her in high school, but she wouldn't even look at me. But now she's a bit less tight, a bit more blown out, her face lost a few points with the sun damage and semen damage, and, well, actually she's a full-blown roastie, actually it looks like roadkill between her legs, but that's okay, she's my soulmate, and I'm taking the high road by inviting all of the guys she fucked to the wedding; we needed to rent a megachurch.

Stacy the Fiance: "Who's that guy you invited to the wedding?"
Beta Bux Bill: "That's Chad, you said to invite him?"
Stacy the Fiance: "Oh, yeah! I'm gonna go say hi to him before we start the ceremony"
** 10 minutes they've both been gone **
** moans coming from the toilet **

>>18602421
Hello there, 16 year old virgin.

>>18603902
Take your retarded virgin manchild cuck fantasies back to /r9k/.

problem with giving birth/health of baby starts to go up at age 35 and grow consistently

dawn syndrone 1 in a thousand for example

fertility also goes down and declines by age

OP, i suggest you find out if shes looking for a semen dispenser or a partner, i know the kind of women who goes berserk to find a dad and want to settle desperately, its easy to figure it out

>>18600838
Don't

i remember when i was 16 i thought 30y old women are middle aged and not very sexy
then i grew up and realized a pussy is a pussy

>>18600838
>>18600838
>Are the chances of children being born with problems actually very high if the woman is in her mid 30s, or is it just a meme?
Not very high at 33 really. The thing is that getting pregnant is not as straight forward as some people think. It may take a year or so. But 34 ain't that bad, it's kind of late, as rising kids takes a lot of energy, but still doable.

>>18600838
I have a fetish for older women. Unfortunately, women over 30 should never be your choice for your marriage. Hot women over 30 are used goods and unfit for marriage. You might be able to break things off for her soon.

I encourage you to fuck her brains out, but never commit or live under the same roof. That should be fine for you. Good luck. Women over 30 are good in bed. Just follow my advice and don't be stupid about the whole relationship shit. Also, don't get too attached.

>>18604138
What is with all these teenager virgins flooding here from /r9k/?

>>18604145
t. roastie

>>18603902


So much this.

Dont you people fucking dare tell me that the later pictures are just as attractive as the first.

http://imgur.com/a/BIFlX

And to top it all off, imagine she's had 20 cocks inside her, been fisted by the local man-whore who is 'alpha' because he fucks every girl in town, etc.

Why would you want that?

>Cars are better when they've been used by other people, preferably more.

Women don't like man-whores for a partner. If they find out he's fucked tons of women, they think its gross. They always delude themselves about it though and think they're fucking the hot guy who hasn't been with anyone else.

But then these same women claim they should secretly be able to fuck many guys for their 16-24 age period and still be considered a viable partner.

its a collusion of self-delusion and hypocrisy between women themselves and women with man-whores.

I dare any girl to come into this thread and say he'd be find dating a guy who's fucked 30-40 other women over the course of his 20's.

There's a reason we prefer low body count; because it says something about the individual. We instinctively know. Yet we deny its true because we wanna look like we're cool and PC.

>>18604173
So buttmad about nobody reading your cuck fantasy that you samefag now?

Just have fun our pump and dump her when it ain't

>>18604351

Go blow a drill with razor blades attached.

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>>18602573
>>18603746
>>18602563
>>18602573
>>18603746
>>18603972

LMAOing at all the butthurt roasties in this thread. Take you barren, dry, disease ridden wizard sleeve cunts and go kys

If you are 30 and single as a woman you deserve no sympathy

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Reminder that men age like wine and women age like milk.

If you have any self respect as a man, you will fuck roasties no strings attached and build wealth and social status until early 30's and then marry a 20 year old virgin and have a family.

If you have any self respect as a female you will give your virginity and youth to your husband and be a good wife and mother

Lmao why is this thread filled with butthurt women. Look OP, if you wanna casually date her go for it but please don't settle down with her.

>>18604821
So juvenile. No wonder you're alone.