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Need some relationship advice 2017-08-08 09:20:18 Post No. 18600686
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Long story, buckle up (1/2)
>be me
>be 15 at this point in time
>be socially garbage
>going on school trip to china
>makesomenewfriendsanon.jpg
>actually kinda excited
>make a bunch of new friends
>chick I've never seen before is on the trip
>she's the most beautiful thing I've ever seen
>she has a bf but I'm not trying to do anything but be friends
>we hit it off instantly and become best friends
>spend literally every minute of a 6 week trip talking or hanging out
>literally the closest I've ever been to someone
>we get home from trip, communication stops, only say hi in the hallways and that's it
>She has bf and he doesn't like me
>I understand
>fast forward a year
>about to graduate from year 10
>US election
>she texts me asking what I think of the election
>spend the next two weeks talking non stop
>Graduation night we get a photo together
>bf freaks out
>she's not allowed to speak to me full stopLong story, buckle up
>be me
>be 15 at this point in time
>be socially garbage
>going on school trip to china
>makesomenewfriendsanon.jpg
>actually kinda excited
>make a bunch of new friends
>chick I've never seen before is on the trip
>she's the most beautiful thing I've ever seen
>she has a bf but I'm not trying to do anything but be friends
>we hit it off instantly and become best friends
>spend literally every minute of a 6 week trip talking or hanging out
>literally the closest I've ever been to someone
>we get home from trip, communication stops, only say hi in the hallways and that's it
>She has bf and he doesn't like me
>I understand
>fast forward a year
>about to graduate from year 10
>US election
>she texts me asking what I think of the election
>spend the next two weeks talking non stop
>Graduation night we get a photo together
>bf freaks out
>she's not allowed to speak to me full stop
>feelsbadman
Pic unrelated (but it is my cat)
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>continue on with my life
>see her at a party without her bf 3 months later
>we start talking
>spend the whole night talking
>end of communication for a while
>fast forward another 3 months
>her and her bf having issues
>I check if she's okay
>start talking again
>fix her broken relationship and remain best friends
>bf doesn't like us talking and cuts me out again
>this cycle repeats about 3 times
>3rd time is a few weeks ago
>we talk non stop
>suddenly her and her bf break up
>everyone asks me if I'm going to go for it
>I love her but hadn't thought of her romantically until that point
>within a week after her breakup she's okay, happiest I've ever seen her
> tells me she really cares about me
>tells me she's been having sexual dreams about me
>tells me she wants me
>myheart.mp4
>spend as much time as possible with her
>go on cute date
>we talk literally 24/7 for a whole weekend
>go on a date on the Tuesday
>hot chocolate, almost perfect day
>find beautiful spot in the park
>she's gorgeous
>I kiss her
>she stops me
>waits a second
>fuckmylife
>she kisses me back
>straight up makes out with me
>I'm the happiest man alive
>date wraps up and we're both really happy
>get home
>new text received
>"we should just be friends anon"
>I can't deal with it
>freak out
>ask if anything meant anything to her
>"yeah anon"
>tell her to text me in the morning when I've got my head straight
>she texts me in the morning
>replies come later
>sometimes she doesn't reply
> I ask if she's okay
>"yeah I'm fine"
>continues
>confront her that night, emotionally unstable at this point
>she tells me she "needs space"
> I can't deal with this
> we haven't spoken in 3 weeks,
even the classes we have together we're both dead quiet. Please help me, I feel like I've lost the girl I love and my best friend in one. What am I supposed to do? Why would she throw away our friendship over a couple days worth of mistakes?
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>>18600686
give her space, don't show your pain, still stay nice.
after some time try talking to her. if she tells you that she loves and all but wanna stay friends, cut her off nicely, cause you need space...
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>>18600698
yeah this, now bugger off and wait a while, anon.
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That's what most people have been telling me to do, thanks for the help. I'll give her some space
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