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How do I learn to tolerate human imperfections in others? It's starting to affect my relationships. Like I cannot stand it when a coworker decides on a long and inefficient way of doing things especially since whatever he is doing is related to my work. It's like I feel responsible for it, although several people told me it's out of my control so I should just chill. I mean it's good advice, I just can't seem to follow it.
The funny thing is that I'm OK with imperfections in objects. I'm not above buying used shit.
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you aint perfect either so maybe stop projecting
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>>18600497
I know I'm not but I always try way harder than I need to (and I feel crushed if I still "fail").
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>>18600494
It's going to be a process, but realize that your perfectionism is not a positive trait if it is hindering your relationships with other people.
When you do things, or try super hard, do it for yourself. Don't compare yourself or your efforts to other people, cause you don't know how hard they are trying.
You can practice cultivating empathy by recognizing when negative thoughts come into your head, and challenging them by coming up with a counter example.
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>>18600494
Control your autistic tendencies and OCD.
It's your fault not theirs
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>>18600494
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cHuei3pDtB4
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