I met a guy back in February I started seeing recently (June), he's very open and honest about his life with me, including a lot about exes. However, he still has a lot of them on facebook and instagram and interacts with them. (Mainly stupid videos or photo likes.) The most recent one I think texts him on and off (general at shows since she does photography), but all of that is making me really uncomfortable. We haven't made anything official yet, should I take this as a red flag or ignore this?
nu male who keeps his harem around in case of emergencies
Have you talked to him about that yet? I have a friend who's a bit like that, but still very loyal and caring to the girl he's currently dating. Definitely talk to him before anything else
Talked to him one time, i forgot the exact situation but he basically said I only see one girl and then said he understood my paranoia based on my previous boyfriend. I don't know if this would bother me less if we were official, so far we're doing the see where it goes thing.
I should mention too I've been at his house every weekend for a month (i still live at home), so unless he's finding time to cheat during the week (full time consulting job) it's unlikely he's cheating now. But I'm worried he still has feelings or might do it in the future. Also worried I'm just being paranoid and I'll blow it.
>>18597940
>exes
>interacts with them
CANCER!
He doesnt want you, he wants his ex back. All or one of them for sure. You are probably his backup gf or rebound so he doesnt have the dreaded "single status".
Tell him to cease this behavior or find new bf. I would find new bf, but i am not you. Have a talk with him and see for yourself.
>maybe you are backup gf?
>>18597940
>honest about his life with me
>interacts with them
top kek.
Why are women so stupid?