can't cum

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25/m
So I don't really have sex a lot, not one for simple hookups and general issues with getting close to people.
And of the 10 or so sexual partners I've had in my life, a few of those long-term, I've only ever been able to cum with one of those.
No issues when masturbating, which I basically do daily tho.
I'm uncut and my tip being very sensitive is an issue as I never pull back my foreskin completely while masturbating, immediately loose my boner when that happens during sex.
Sometimes get soft without any reason anyways, never able to cum from sex, dick is average length, but very thin, microdick when soft.

Recently I've seen that in today's dating world sexual compatibility is extremely important to everyone, so I'll need to get this under control before actually dating, how tho?
I've tried nofap, then had a single hookup which didn't work out, after got ghosted by the girl.

Should I just get a hooker?
Should I get drugs, at least when starting out with a new date?
Where to get those?
Don't have any friends close enough to talk about that/ask for help...

TL/DR: Can't cum during sex.
How to fix?