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Went soft in bed last night. 2017-08-06 10:27:36 Post No. 18594940
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I'm 22, I have a high libido and am still masturbating regularly, but I am just struggling to be excited about sleeping with my girlfriend anymore. It's been almost 5 years. She's attractive and all, but there is nothing exciting to me about the prospect of getting into bed with her.
But, I do love her, and she is a good partner. In public I see plenty of girls I want to sleep with, some of whom aren't even as attractive. It's very frustrating.
Cheating isn't an option, I've had quite a few advances over the years. and turned them all down.
What can I do?
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>>18594940
Well you can try some fetishes with your gf.
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Get a waifu, it's not cheating if she's 2D.
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>>18594940
>am still masturbating regularly
Stop this, exercise regularly, cut stimulants, pornography, and alcohol. It cured it for me- I'm 28, so I'm a little older, but I've come to realize fapping to over the top pornography has caused me to have an expectation of sexual prowess, and degradation that I cannot expect from a partner- especially one who I plan on being with for an extended period of time.
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>>18594961
My masturbation habits have been the same for over a decade.
We would have sex two or three times a day for the first 3 and a half years or so, only recently I have been bored of her.
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>>18594966
>My masturbation habits have been the same for over a decade.
Hormonally your body changes massively from adolescence, so if you're still beating off like you're a teenager- that is a problem. Pornography also causes physiological changes in the brain especially when viewed frequently over long periods of time.
>"When people start watching porn, there is a huge flood of dopamine in the brain," explains Dr. Elizabeth Waterman, a psychologist at Morningside Recovery Center in Newport California. "Over time, the receptors that were once very sensitive become less sensitive, and normal physical intimacy does not produce enough dopamine to stimulate the dopamine receptors." In other words, the more porn you watch, the more – and harder and more graphic – porn you need in order to get it up. If the trend continues, men can find themselves physically unable to maintain an erection, much less enjoy sexual contact with another person.
http://www.mensjournal.com/health-fitness/health/are-you-watching-too-much-porn-20130821
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