Hey /adv/. I've noticed that whenever I'm texting a girl, I have a hard time finding responses and opening a conversation because I'm constantly overthinking. My sense of humor is very sarcastic but I worry that when texting, the jokes may instead be taken as offense. I don't have much problem in person, but it's hard for me to text a girl, especially who I haven't met.
Any tips?
>>18593753
Don't overdue it at first, if you wanna be sarcastic; do it to where its obvious but playful. If you see she's more comfortable with it in the future, then I guess you can be more sarcastic as your relationship with the girl goes.
>I have a hard time finding responses and opening a conversation because I'm constantly overthinking.
As for this, I can only suggest you try not to overcompensate on things, and just go with whatever's happening in the situations, maybe have some nice small talk's here and there if you're having trouble finding stuff to talk about.
>>18593753
Sarcasm and irony are very, very VERY hard to communicate in print. Save them for in-person conversation where you can signal your intent by facial expression (and even then be prepared to be misunderstood)
My sense of humor is dry as fuck but I use emojis when I say something I feel might go over someones head as humor. For people who really know me, I don't need to do that but I do it when I'm worried someone might just think I'm being a dick because the text doesn't convey the humor in the way it would if said out loud.
>>18593753
> ;D
I ruined a great relationship by being too sarcastic over text, among other things
use emotes like the winking one to show sarcasm