Hello everyone, I'll make this short.
This girl I've been seeing lately lives in a 3-bedroom apt with 5 other girls. If we go to get busy at her place, I know all the other people who are home can hear everything, because I can hear every word they say. I know they know what we're doing, and totally hear everything. It freaks me out, and I'm having trouble relaxing into stuff. How can I get used to sex when I know a bunch of people are listening to every sound?
>>18591351
Just think of how jealous they are.
>>18591351
Just tell them you watch porn
>>18591351
realize that no one really gives a shit about anyone other than themselves and all of this worry about how other people perceive you is just an excuse not to self-actualize
>have sex with gf
>say "ugh I'm thirsty gotta go some water brb"
>walk through house naked and everyone can see you
now you're used to them seeing you as exposed as possible
I lived in a dorm where my bedroom shared a wall with a bedroom that belonged to a roommate who loved to fug. I heard them every single time they ever did it. It was annoying and I'd joke about them to my bf, but I also recognize that there was no way to make that situation better. Not like you can just ask people to stop having sex
>>18591351
I've done this before. Don't think of it as, "Oh, someone is listening right now," because that will cause anxiety. Try to think of it as, "In the future, someone might approach me with something they overheard in here. I should be conscious of what I say."
So sex noises and whispering are fine. Just don't saying anything bad like, "Man I hate myself, slap me," or, "I'm gonna fuck your face you cooky bitch."
If you're not having vanilla sex, just don't say weird things too loud or make too many weird sounds. If you're stuck thinking about whether or not someone is actively listening to you, try to put it out of mind.
>>18591351
UE Megaboom + music with no pauses?
>>18591351
When i was younger my brother who i shared a room with would have sex across the bedroom while i was awake I wouldnt ever look a anything of course just sit there on my computer Its not like someone is going to try and listen or be horrified by you having sex in the same house as them