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How to achieve success with possibly mildy autistic girl?

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>See cute girl on fetish blog
>Hit her up
>We chat every once in awhile
>I kind of beta orbit her
>She actually says on her tumblr that people are lucky if she even talks to them (not in a bitchy way, like saying she just doesn't talk much)
>She is kind of off seeming
>Has said she has mental issues
So I talk to this girl online who seems a little "off" to say the least. She runs a fetish blog. Obviously gets a bit of male attention. I sometimes have to double message, not like minutes after, but say we have a convo, she'll just drop out and I'll hit her up another day to get shit going again. We've held conversations about mundane topics before, but other than that she seems almost incapable of talking about anything but the fetish we share. I'm starting to get hints of autism from her. It's literally all she will talk about. She also speaks in incredibly verbose passages that border on meaningless because of how many unnecessary words are there. Like she tries to be verbose but it doesn't really mean anything. She has other social media stuff I've seen and she shows a little more norminess in her posts but when you talk to her it's like...fetish. that's it. I've received pictures from her, we indulge in fetish talk but that's literally it with her.
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>>18590417
And some of you may say that she's just using me, I really think she's obsessed with it to an almost autistic level. We can have hour long conversations and that's all it centers around. I'll throw her a "how have you been?" and it's like it's all that runs through her mind. I don't think I've learned a single thing about her in the past 2 or so years of talking to her, besides that she plays video games. Just really strange. In the realm of talking to people online, it seems people will at least open up slightly to give you an idea of who they are. Another girl I talk to in the fetish, we talk about our lives, music, plenty of other shit. This girl I'm referring to is almost robotic. It's just strange. Is it possible I'm talking to someone on the spectrum? And how do you go about flirting with someone like this? Is it even possible? She actually said she's interested in me and yadda yadda yadda but she's so strange.

This is coming from someone who DOESN'T beta orbit in any sense and has a strict no double text policy for other girls. I have no trouble with any other woman, but this girl is a puzzle. The only strategy that worked was the one I told you thus far and that's only got me fetish talk and pics.
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>>18590417
>This is coming from someone who DOESN'T beta orbit in any sense

>I kind of beta orbit her

Dude, don't lie to us. Or at least edit your posts better to account for the lies.

She is not "using" you. She just don't care to develop a deeper relationship with you. It's been two years. If you really had other prospects you'd stop thinking about this girl.
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>>18590419
Just to add, I've talked to MANY girls online at this point and none of them have ever talked like she does. There's a certain coldness that you get a sense of after a couple of conversations.
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>>18590429
Well let me rephrase, I don't beta orbit with anyone else. And this isn't one itis, I have plenty of prospects. I just think she's hot. She doesn't run through my mind all the time or anything, she just posted recently and I thought about this. I know there's some autismos who lurk so I figured I'd get a second opinion.
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>tumblr

Run and never look back
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>>18590450
Hahah gotta take what you get in my realm bro.
I wish I could show you guys some of the word salad she posts, just to get a sense of how she talks.
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>>18590436

The point is not "understanding autismo". She just doesn't seem to be into you. An autist would make weird attempts to connect and fail. She just isn't trying to connect with you beyond the fetish.
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>>18590455
Except she has explicitly said she's interested. Did you even read the post?
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>>18590417
Tell us which fetish.
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>>18590458

But is she? Really? What has she done that makes you think that? Not "said", "done". What kind of effort has she made ot include you in her life or to include herself into yours?

It's been TWO years mate.
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>>18590468
Why? lol
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