Lover has no personality/interests but invades on mine

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I've been dating a coworker for a few months and at first it was all new and fresh. Now I'm starting to think the only link between us is work and that he lets me drive his car. He's a normie but he seems to secretly like the thrills whenever I speed away like a nutjob.

In any case, I've asked him what he likes to do in his freetime. He doesn't like videogames, isn't into music, reading books, sports, movies etc. although he's always 'on the move', needs to do something. So instead, he cleans, irons clothes, cooks, watchs tv to fall asleep, cleans again, maybe travels but mostly by car. He is passionate about his work though, can talk hours about it.

I'm only slightly flattered whenever he acts interested into buying a book or going to a concert with me eventhough it's out of his world and clearly would be doing something else. Most certainly wouldn't enjoy it either.

I don't know why he does this? He says he's adaptable? Am I in the wrong to feel irritated and prefer he liked the things I did and not 'like' or show interest in them for my sake? Is he empty? How should I approach this without insulting him?
Does this have a chance of survival? Should I 'open his world' or keep him out of my business?


tl;dr
>dating coworker
>his life revolves around work, no other hobbies
>good husband(waifu?) material
>intrudes on my life, interests and hobbies just for my sake
>doesn't particularly enjoy them, at best acts interested
>has no part in my world, he's like an impostor
>claims to be highly adaptable, does whatever the crowd he's in does
>reads to me as having no personality (i too am adaptable if it's to my interest but i have a core that doesnt change)