Is LDR even worth trying?

Have you met in real life?

>>18588872
No

>>18588864
LDRs are a meme, but it's nice to mic chat / flirt with qts from all around the world.

Feeling the affection is really invigorating even if both parties know deep down that you'll never meet.

>>18588888
It's not that unlikely in our case. We could meet at some point for sure but you know

>>18588864
>I might move to his country eventually, in 2 or 3 years

What makes you think you can? Immigration Laws are a bitch.

Just saying.

>>18588918
The problem is that he could find someone IRL during the time period of you talking.

The worst thing you can do is try and enforce some sort of restriction on someone in a different country during an '''''''LDR''''''''' that they can't get together with anyone in real life, that's just unfair and unreasonable.

There's been plenty of girls over the years I've really liked, flirted with, had Skype sex with etc, but that never lasts and they find pursue a romantic relationship in reality. It hurts for a little bit, but internet girls are a lot easier to get over than girlfriends in reality.

I mean... If you haven't met in real, how do you know he's a good deal?

I'm just trying to broaden your view. If you really think he's the deal, you should get an LDR with him.
Do bear in mind that he might say 'no' for the same reasons you've said here.

My real advice here is: Know the risks, embrace them, and do what you want.
The first two are the most important... Know the risks and embrace them, else you'll be depressed and stuff.

Hope you guys turn out fine, together or not!

>>18588933
True but I'm from decent background so maybe I'll make it

>>18588934
That's always a possibility but it happens to real life relationships too. Just less often. It's a risk willing to take. Don't know about him