I can't cum with my girlfriend, we had sex 4 times and nothing,

>>18588852
A friend of mine had this issue the doctor told him it was bc when he did fap he gripped hard for maximum feeling and that destroyed the nerves on his dick so he cant actually enjoy real sex bc no pussy is that tight id say stop touching your dick completely and hope you get some feeling back but as far as i lnow theres no way to regrow nerves without stem cell therapy

>>18588867
>>18588852
It's called Death Grip Syndrome.

http://www.curedeathgrip.com/plan-a.html

>>18588852
Time to do no fap until you will be so horny you will cum. It can take weeks.

>>18588919
This.

>>18588919
+1

I have it. Still haven't been able to cure it. I've honestly felt ashamed to prostitutes I sleep with.

>>18588962
How long have you been trying to fix it?

Learn what makes you cum...

Took me a while to discover, but I realized that the on-fours position is better for me to cum when I'm fucking a girl.
I rarely cum with them sucking me, and it takes me quite a while to cum too, but I'm fine with it.

Again, find whatever kinky stuff that makes you diamonds and do it with her. I just hope you are in for a pegging experience. Have fun, byebye.

>>18588852
You might need to a NoFap - 90 days is a good amount of time to do it, if you can. Another option, if your girlfriend is comfortable with it, masturbate together with her, so your brain starts associating her with sex and you become more comfortable with it.

Smoking weed might also help, or it might make it worse. Also look into baclofen, phenibut and wellbutrin - these are drugs which have noted libido raising properties / side effects.

Finally, consider the possibility that you might be asexual. Have you been able to cum with other girls? Or is this all women?

Good luck OP.

>>18588852
you using condom? i cant cum too with one on

>>18588852
comes with time dude. Took me 8 or 9 attempts with my first gf...

>>18588867
>that destroyed the nerves on his dick so he cant actually enjoy real sex
fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck me. don't say things like that.

>>18588852
Something similar happened with me

Fapped most of my life from 15 years old onwards
Never really bothered dating until I was 29 where I met someone and dated etc
Sleep together but I am not able to cum, just dont feel anything at all down there (dont know if its in, dont know if im still hard)
Was really embarrassing but Ican never seem to quit fapping, I think its too far gone now

>>18589363
Not him, but I've never heard of anyone masturbating so much that it's literally impossible to fix without the help of some doctor. Though maybe he's right and I just didn't encounter anyone like that yet.

>>18589419
Just stop fapping. Another anon already gave a link to the death grip article. It actually depends from person to person on how long it takes for your dick to heal, so don't get discouraged if it's not perfect after a month like in the article. Some people needed a few months to fix it, but they did manage to do it. There's also some herbal medicine that helps. Don't give up, anon.