>Friend asking for advice for the past few months on how to deal with their significant other
>Give her advice constantly
>She'll call me in the middle of the night crying
>Feel bad, console her blablabla
>This goes for awhile
>Talk to her earlier about ending it, she agrees it's a good idea
>She doesn't, get's back into it
>Keeps asking me for advice
>Finally lose my patience and explode on her and rant how I can't keep giving her advice for her to not follow it, mad as hell and tired of hearing the same thing over and over
>Hasn't talked to me in the hours since
I'm not sure if we're still friends. For the record I have a gf, I'm not trying to dig her out. I'm just tired of hearing her bitch and then pussyfoot around the problem
She is using you as an emotional tampon, she does not give a shit about the advice you give.
In the end people will still do their own shit and many times they just want someone to vent their problems to not get actual advice.