I usually feel lonely and have always seemed to have a crush

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2017-08-03 06:11:38 Post No. 18586077
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Anonymous 2017-08-03 06:11:38 Post No. 18586077 [Report]

I usually feel lonely and have always seemed to have a crush on someone. The crush I have right now is on a friend of mine (or at the very least the only person I'd want to be in a relationship with), where it's lasted a couple years but she's already rejected me 3 times. I don't ever intend on asking her out again.

That being said, I don't want to focus on any girls while I stay in school and focus on the more important things. Some people seem to be perfectly okay with being single, how do I do that? Is it as easy as loving myself? Because I feel like I do love myself and that I just have a lot of love in general and want to give it. I've been single for 5 years now, my only real relationship being a 4-month long one in grade 10. I'm 21 years old.

What are good steps to take to not really think about relationships in general or feeling lonely?

Anonymous 2017-08-03 06:53:20 Post No.18586186
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>>18586077
I mean I've heard before that there's always "1 person that occupies your heart", is that something i just have to deal with?

Anonymous 2017-08-03 07:16:48 Post No.18586234
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Anonymous 2017-08-03 07:16:48 Post No.18586234 [Report]

>>18586186
> 1 person that occupies your heart

that's called oneitis, anon. please sit and think it through. why waste your time waiting for someone who will never feel the way you feel for them? why miss all the other girls/guys you can meet and have great time with?

Anonymous 2017-08-03 07:33:01 Post No.18586287
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Anonymous 2017-08-03 07:33:01 Post No.18586287 [Report]

>>18586234
>im not sitting around and waiting though. it just seems like i've always liked one person, and then would never really fully get over that person until I liked someone else, but I would just like to get to a point where I don't really feel any of this towards any girl period so I can focus on like school and work and shit. I don't intend on going out of my way to meet new people and whathaveyou at this time

Anonymous 2017-08-03 07:47:54 Post No.18586337
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Anonymous 2017-08-03 07:47:54 Post No.18586337 [Report]

>>18586287
well then do what you think is right. nobody's forcing you to date other girls but remember she's never gonna be with you and there's nothing wrong or sad about that.

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