How do I show girls that I like them, but am not just trying

You can show that by not becoming too intimate. You have sex but don't talk about feelings, per say, you won't tell her stuff... That shows you aren't interested in more than pussy.

Also, you can always say the word if they ask for it. I would wait for her to start the "what are we?" talk and say "I really like spending time with you, you are amazing. Still, right now I'm not up for a relationship... I'd love to stick around with you and have fun, but if you are looking for a relationship, I might not be the one for you, and it's ok for you to quit" or something.

>>18585822

But intimacy is my favorite part. Should I just get a therapist?

>>18585825
Or a girlfriend. Or a prostitute/escort.

If you like being gf and bf with the girls you're with, but you don't want to have a relationship... that makes little sense, and can be the product of past experiences, so yes, you should get a therapist.

Or you can just turn the 'give no fucks' buttom on and keep doing what you are.

>>18585825
>>18585835
That therapist idea is a good one, though

>>18585836
I mean there's just so many people out there. Why limits yourself to just getting to know some, or even one?

>maybe go on "dates" and have sex, but not be in a relationship
You have ti pay for that.

>>18586131
Why? Are there no girls who want to retain their independence but also enjoy male company sometimes?

>>18585810
So find a girl with a bf

>Like, I want to hang out, maybe go on "dates" and have sex

>But intimacy is my favorite part.

It's not impossible to find someone on the same wavelength, but you would be quite lucky because you are essentially saying that you want to have a relationship without all the expectations/responsibilities of a relationship. It's not for nothing that when people are fuckbuddies, they typically have rules like no emotional talks, no kissing outside of sex, no hanging out without having sex, no sleeping over... because it is difficult to keep an exact balance with lots of emotional and physical vulnerability, deep personal talks, affection, playfulness, but absolutely no feelings.

Basically, find girls you can have sex with no strings attached, and female or male friends you can have heart to hearts with. Don't look for relationships that aren't called relationships and count your lucky stars if you stumble upon something like that naturally.