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Can't climax during sex 2017-08-03 02:02:52 Post No. 18584066
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Hey guys, I need help.
'Bout two weeks ago I had sex for the first time at 27 (I know) with my girlfriend. Thing is I couldn't reach orgasm after like an hour. She came at least 3 times and was happy so I figured it went as well as I could hope for a first time. But I just couldn't orgasm. I told her it was probably because I masturbated beforehand (I didn't know we were having sex). She felt bad because she thought I didn't find her attractive for some reason.
Anyway, I was on a no fap diet and yesterday we had sex again. Again, our quickie turned into an hour long thing where it was great for her but she wanted me to cum and we kept at it until we were tired and she dried out. Again, no shots were fired from my cannon and I had to jerk myself off to climax.
I don't want this to affect our relationship later on.
Question is; is there something I should be doing or I should know?
I used to masturbat frequently since I was 15 is that it?
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>>18584066
stop masturbating for at least 2 weeks and you should be able to cum again. I'm pretty sure this problem is a lot better than the opposite. I wish I could last more than 5 mins.
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>>18584066
if you vice-grip your dick, you may have permanently damaged your nerve-endings. a woman's vagina can never compare to the crushing grip of of a fist in terms of raw pressure. if it is nerve-ending damage, you will never recover from that.
if you don't grip your dick like the edge of a cliff you're hanging off of, then maybe you just don't find her sexy... did you try closing your eyes and fantasizing about other women?
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A lot of guys either shoot immediately or can't shoot at all their first few times. I was in the latter category. Stop worrying about it, and it'll probably clear itself out.
Reducing the frequency of masturbation won't hurt either. Gripping too hard while fapping reduces the sensitivity of your dong, making it harder to avhieve climax from the vag.
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>>18584066
I don't believe the masturbation had anything to do.
Quite strangely, I had a friend that just couldn't cum during sex, so he ended up masturbating after sex.
Probably you aren't turned on like when you find a new fetish. Next time, try something that gets you really motivated.
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>>18584665
Your friend should go to a hooker, they know what they are doing.
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I'm 23 and with my 2nd long term partner. Never once finished from penetration. I did nofap for 8 months and it didn't change anything. Good luck
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