I've been working in a Bar for the passed 3 months and I'm not completely over my ex. When we broke up after a few weeks I got a text from unknown number (Guessing it's his number, she blocked me) - It was a photo of her and her new dude. Been trying to get over her asap. Some how she found out where I work and keeps coming in with her bf. I play it cool like I don't care but after a while it's starting to get to me and I'm not 100% over her yet. Every time they come in I can see them at the corner of my eye staring at me, playing those games like laugh then look at me. I'm certain they're doing this just to piss me off and get a reaction but I could just be paranoid. I've played it cool every time they come in and I don't let it phase me but really it's chipping away at me. What do? Keep this up and hopefully they'll stop coming was my initial idea but it's been 3 months. On the bright side, seeing how childish they are has made me go off her more. I'd like to know your thoughts and suggestions.
A:26
S:M
L:LA, USA
TLDR - Work in a Bar
Ex and her BF keep coming in
Not completely over Ex
Playing mind games with me (or so I believe)
Always playing it cool, giving no reaction
3 Months of this
I'm Pretty sure I'll be seeing them again Friday
Just make sure at least one of your colleagues also knows about this in case they would do something more to bother you.
continue keeping cool, u endured 3 months, soon they will get bored and stop it eventualy
They all know, it used to be none of them knew so I was the one to serve them but now they take care of it for me so that's one less shitty thing to do