try or not?

>should I better go try dating apps
depends what you're looking for. want to get dicked and never taken seriously? go for the apps. doesn't hurt to add someone on facebook and try to start getting to know them. if he doesn't respond well, you've lost nothing.

Try getting in touch with him. From a male perspective, there's nothing wrong at all with a woman who has a healthy figure. His job might keep him away for a while, but if that's something you think you can live with, you only stand to gain from trying.

>>18582138
Just go for it. Just say that you met his dad and he said you were cool.

Be friendly and cordial about it.

Just ball hard.

thanks anons <3 now I'll have to work with my confidence to keep conversation going if he will respond

Now post ur tits

btw he had relationship for like 5-6years, but since he is always away his gf cheated on him and they split up recently like 1-2 months ago (might go back for her) - i got to know this from his dad and cousin

>>18582192
>>18582192
Just add him. If your body looks like the pic posted then anybody would be extremely lucky to have you. Your profile pic may make him forget his ex. Just message him saying that you're friends with his cousin. Post pic of body so we can see if you're really like pic

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have no pic skills to blur out things, used paint... pls no haters, cup size E/D, here old swimsuit, because in bikinis boobs looks like I had 5children

>>18582410
I approve of this body. That being said, before adding him out of the blue, why not ask her father to let him know about you? That way you won't seem like a total random stranger.

Not like anyone actually gives a shit, so sure, go for it.

>>18582410
Damn girl, keep us updated. Post more pics pls

>>18582410
>>18582138
>I have the same body type as girl in the pic
>doesn't have the same body type as girl in the pic

these insecurity threads...women are so often looking for emotional support over advice. you're perfectly capable of figuring out what to do here, OP, better than we are.

sage

>>18583062
nothing happened, the guy didnt accept friend request yet and I have no way of checking if he was online and saw it... he might be sleeping or driving...
to take that pic took me fuck ton of courage, I'm shy as fuck but when Anon mode on - can talk freely
I think I'll give up on that dude
Want to try dating apps, but those which are avalable in my country is mostly used to get sluts or one night stands...
I was very depressed recently, had bad thoughts but gave up on them. I just need some guy that tells my I'm good the way I am and doesnt judge me for having interest in learning different languages. I'm european, and when I say I learned japanees every guy is like - u weird why the fuck would you learn it; and I'm like: its just fun...
I gained 12kg in last 6 months so my self confidence is shattered..
Oh and everyone thinks I'm stuck up or very proud of myself, like I'm belitteling others, but its just that I have hard time expresing myself. Often seen as cold hearted bitch

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>>18583079 pro like paint skills
I tend to suck in my belly a bit, that was unintentional, here seen better

and I said I have simmilar body shape

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>>18583142
dat ass

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better view
do squats ocassionaly

eh what the heck

yeah you look good. you look a little more kid-like than the girl in the OP, but you also look more fit than her, and you have a very nice ass.

>fishing for compliments
>"guy might not want to fuck my brains out!"
>"idk my physique is so badDD!!!!"

fuck off

whatever

>>18583445
You don't realize how some girls minds work. I'm the same way so... I'm pretty sure, she's sincere

>>18582138
Is worth trying though because dating apps never work for me. He still old-fashioned way and worth a shot with the uncle. Truck drivers can getlonely

>>18582155
Not really. It sounds like you're not from the US. If you don't live in any major country, dating apps are actually used for dating, not hookups.

>>18583461
ok then ill give my opinion

>>18582138
honestly i think it would be weird to add him straight up on facebook. it'll look weird etc..

maybe ask his uncle/father to introduce you guys, maybe at a family function or something. Or just straight up tell them to say who you are and why youre adding him on facebook. something along those lines

>>18582410
>>18583142
>>18583167
you don't really look like that girl in the op. she is getting near fat, you are not. you might be slightly chubby/THICC. but thats just my opinion. any dude that doesnt jerk off to """perfect""" porn stars will find you to be very attractive if you can dress up well and are clean. you would probably look good in a 2piece, who told you you look like that?

also that ass on point girl

>looks like that
>wants a tall and fit bf

You must be kidding me. You are below average and you want a guy who is objectively above average.

Like what the fuck kind of fantasy do you live in?

OP here, thanks for advices and encouragement guys
so the end: he didnt wrote back or any contact, so I'll just give up on this.

this thread is pretty much useless now, is it possible to delete it? feels strange after seeing it again and again

>>18582138
You got the same body type as my GF, and guys are constantly trying to get with her. don't worry. you're good looking, and I'm sure you'll be ok. Talk to him, ask him out for a coffee ort a quick bite. hell, you already know his dad, so that's something. Hell, it sounds like the dad could be your wingman on this.

>>18583481
did you try what i said in my post? tell his uncle to tell him about you.

did he leave you on read? or did you add him and he might be busy so didn't reply and you are over reacting?

>>18583486
i didnt tell his uncle - he said himself that he will talk, but either he didnt, or the guy wasnt interested, so now i just tried at least

he might be bussy, but I think I'll just pass.
if he adds me i'll talkt to him and see what happens, but if not, then oh well - lost nothing

>>18583497
just dont overreact and wait for him to reply. also try dating apps like you mentioned, wont hurt

>>18583142
take a pic of you bending over with ass facing mirror

>>18582138
Listen OP
I'm going to say something but i'm not trying to sound rude. But your body shape is the first thing you brought up so you're obviously a bit insecure about it

Anyway, if you actually care to, losing weight is the single easiest thing you can change that basically doubles your attractiveness. It doesn't really cost you anything the way cosmetic surgery does, and you don't have to change your personality. Its literally a free upgrade

not a fitizen so you might have to ask them

just drop like 10 - 20 lbs through exercise. it'll probably a 2 or 3 months worth at the worst, if you're somewhat serious

but you arenot as large as the girl in OP photo so yeah 10 - 20 is good

>>18583715
i think she looks pretty good already. girl in the op is definitely fat though.

I'm much chubbier than you and I've gotten with fit guys with six pack and, it's all about the confidence.

>>18583727
she's still self conscious about her body, and everyone likes something different. 10 - 20 isn't a lot, and since its 10 - 20 of fat, it'll make a big diff in how she feels (just with extra weight) and looks
note the ankles and elbows (pls OP don't start being super self conscious about your elbows and ankles, i'm just trying to help anon see what i see)
And before you go to the other extreme of hurr durr anorexia, i said 10 - 20. i'm not suggesting she turn into a rail thin runway model. more like jennifer lawrence body or somewhere around there

>>18583763
This too
But also if the guys are into chubbies

>>18583772
True, but they're not hard to come by and she's thick. I've never had a hard time finding guys interested in the whole tiny waist and big tits and ass. She just needs to be confident. Her body is fucking sexy.