Dating an escort

>>18581922
you don't date an escort

>>18581923
Not even to see what it might be like? I mean it's not like she's hiding it from me. We met at her work and there's no awkward phase getting naked in front of each other or anything.

>>18581922
You're being played. Escorts don't love.

>>18581929
Escorts might not, but she's still a human being. What are you basing your opinion on?

>>18581926
see >>18581929

It's literary business as usual for her.
Don't be naive.

>>18581936
So you'd never date someone you would meet at work? Client, coworker, anything?

Be up-front and honest from the beginning. Ask her flat-out just what you're in store for, and don't let her dance around giving you a straight answer. If you're intent on trying to make it work, a relationship with an escort requires honesty on her part, and humility on yours.

>>18581939
My clients and coworkers don't have sex and fake affection for money

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>>18581939
I wouldn't work at escort services.
Also I don't shit where I eat.

>>18581940
Thank you for sharing. It's not like I'm disregarding the opinions of the other posters. It's just they haven't given me much advice on and advice board.

>>18581939
That's different
She's an escort, dating IS her work

>>18581941
>>18581942
>>18581945
She's providing a service to give lonely people an experience. She's not allowed to love or date simply because of her line of work?

>>18581949
She is but it can only end in two ways:
>She quit her job
>At least one person in the relationship will be unhappy

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>>18581949
Gee you just want to date her if you still insist on doing so after all the posts by me and the other anons that posted.

Just fucking do it and stop providing shitty counter-arguments.

I struggle to find a girl with morals, and you think that the first hooker, I repeat HOOKER, that showed up on your front porch is the love of your life.

>>18581957
I've been with girls before. I'm just not ruling it out because of what she does. And you're judging her entire personal life around what she might do To Help get her through school? Seems kinda shallow.

>>18581956
How do you know it'll end only those two ways?

>>18581964
>How do you know it'll end only those two ways?
Because she and her bf are humans.

Don't mention it. A woman is still a woman, regardless of her line of work. Just because she's an escort doesn't mean she's any less capable of affection than the next girl. I honestly believe it can work. Just play iy smart and make sure you both have all your cards on the table so you know what both of you want out of this thing.

>>18581970
Point taken

As long as you both agree about what kind of relationship it is, I don't see a problem with it. Perhaps just accept it as an "open relationship".

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>>18581964
If you're willing to defend her so fucking much, just fucking do it, date her, marry her, whatever but don't come on 4chan to validate your shitty opinions/options.

>And you're judging her entire personal life around what she might do To Help get her through school? Seems kinda shallow.

L M A O

Literary, what kind of moral girl would resort to prostitution in order to make ends meet?

Alright, say you ask her out, say you hit it off pretty well, will she quit her job for you?

Do you have enough money to provide for her while she's searching for a job? (let's also assume that she will search for a job instead of leeching off you).

Have you thought about ANYTHING about the long-run?

Great life options OP.

>>18581982
This post set off my virginity detector.

>>18581985
this post gave me cancer

>>18581982
>Leeching off you
Implying most women don't do that anyway.

>>18581949
Intimacy is a loaded act. Anyone who can have the sheer amount of casual sex escorts do are fundamentally broken people, practically sociopaths.

>>18582005
Go back to /r9k/
[spoiler]Even if you're right [/spoiler]

>>18582005
still hoping to find a girl that isn't meat around a fucking hole.

>>18582012
Dateless virgin trying to give advice on sex: the post.

>>18582016
Don't look for them in bar

>>18582018
t. Dateless virgin projecting

>>18581922
top lol


Why do people keep falling for this meme is beyond me but good for you for taking the hit instead of us

>>18582020
I don't.
Fuck me.

>>18582030
Where are you looking then?
Also, are you american?

>>18582028
She told me she might sometimes date clients
Offer her a drink "I don't drink"
Offer her coffee "I don't drink coffee"
Offer to cook for her "I'd love that"
Don't you think she would have gotten more money other of me if I was drunk?

>>18582035
No I'm not American.

Concerts and other shitty events I go with usually one or two friends of mine.

>>18582048
>Concerts and other shitty events I go with usually one or two friends of mine.
What kind of music?

>>18582028
>>18582046
Also to add onto that, cooking for her is the cheapest possible option. What does she gain from me cooking for her? Aside from one free meal?.

>>18582051
The last one was a student's concert, most of the bands were punk rock.

There were some girls of my liking, but I didn't bother talking to any of them, I just sat and listened, most of them were pretty good desu.

>>18582058
If you're willing to believe that she's so much innocent, and just a girl that life was rough on her, just do it.

No one will stop you.

Go for it. I'm dating an escort, sort of. Although not in the way you think. Rather, I have a nsa friends with benefits thing with a girl. One day she revealed to me she has a side job as an escort. I simply figures that great, I getting something essentially free what others are paying hundreds for.

>>18582058
why come here to argue against advice tho
literally just this
>>18582065

just don't come crying back here

>>18582065
You must be a Burger. Escorts in the developed world don't do it because their life is rough and they are starving.

>>18582070
thanks for adding that last one

>>18582059
>There were some girls of my liking, but I didn't bother talking to any of them
You need to talk to them if you want to know if they are more than meat around a hole

>>18582070
The "advice" is mainly /r9k/ tier muh pure waifu tier.

>>18582071
Joke's on you, I'm from yuropoor.

That's what OP believes, see >>18581964

>And you're judging her entire personal life around what she might do To Help get her through school? Seems kinda shallow.

So just start seeing her and not paying her and see if she gets upset then?
seems straight forward to me

>>18582073
I've tried talking to girls that I don't know, didn't work out that good.

I'm above average, and no, I didn't ask her if I could stick it in her.

>>18582074
No, it's sensible advice
If you don't think there's something wrong about a girl that is an escort, there's something wrong with you too

It can just be that she's in a rough part of her life and need the money but it could also be a bigger problem, like low self-esteem or low morals

>>18582082
Try again and again
It won't succeed each time, obviously

>>18582088
You reply with exactly a /r9k/ tier muh pure waifu post.

>>18581934
The fact she sells her body for money. She knows how to play the part anon. This is her field of experience.

>>18581964
You want advice. But all you sound like this girls little cuck. Fuck off if you don't want to hear the truth.

>>18582113
You seem to have spend as much time as me on /r9k/
That is no time at all

>>18582123
And you keep giving dateless virgin advice.

>>18582058
>goes to your house
>sees how nice your apartment / house is
>if shitty then she'll eat and never talk to you again unless it's you paying her to fuck
>if decent, she'll be lovey dovey, say how nice your place is, ask you where you work etc etc.
>if she decides you're easy to leech off of then she might date you

>>18582067
Can't tell if this is cuck bait
>>18582074
Why would you trust someone who fucks for money? Anyone can et a job at mcdonalds
>>18582128
This HAS to be bait.

>>18582189
You don't know how much escorts make, do you? And they can choose their clients, only men they like.

>>18581922
Is this a ruse?

t. virgin

>>18581922
OP, I cannot stress this enough. Be VERY careful. Not all escorts are Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman.

In Atlanta, there have been women who have lured guys with the promise of dates. They invite them in, and their pimp is waiting with a gun.

Next thing you know, you lost your car and wallet. Some even force you to drain your limit out of an ATM.

In Texas, a couple of guys were found dead in a ditch with a .45 slug in their brain.

She could be just trying to work through beautician school. She could also be a crack addict. You can't tell from a fuck. BE CAREFUL.

>>18582172
This here op.

>>18581922
How rich are you? Do you make enough that she'd be looking at you as a sugar daddy, or do you think she's actually into you?

why are you dating an escort? mate her job is literally to fuck you and get paid

are you dense?

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>guys should i date a hooker?
>no op dont do it its a bad idea
>well you guys are wrong!

>>18583463
62pbp

>>18583463
Fucking Christ, this.

You're being played OP and if you're too fucking dumb to see it then say goodbye to your savings.

Here OP
date her, but just buried deep down (but not too deep) keep alive the idea that she might be using you and that she can and therefore you should be able to bail any time
pragmatically that's the best you can do that isn't also
>don't date her anon

>>18583337
Nah, I'm young and close to her age. My profession is known for being low paid workers and I only paid for the smallest possible amount of time with her. She knows all this, I never gave off the impression that I have money.

>>18583707
>>18583337
So I don't know really. She gave me a few minor compliments about liking my hair and eyes and she just really seemed into being cooked for

>>18583717
>>18583707
OP
just fucking go on a few dates with her
does she still expect you to pay her or what? tell us these things

There's a documentary on netflix called Escorts. Watch that OP, they all want to date dudes and live normal lives but it all falls to shit because the boyfriend wants her to stop escorting and they never want to stop.

If you do it hit off and get serious you will not be able to live with the facts she getting railed by five different guys a night.

>>18583802
This
Basically old habits die hard.

I truly hope OP found a one in a million, diamond in the rough kind of girl who was forced into this situation through extraordinary circumstances and was just doing this to live another day.

But chances are that isnt true. This girl might've fucked her way through high school. Got shit grades so no college. Fired from every job. Fucked on the side. Decided to strip. Found drugs and alcohol. Been fucking since. And yeah, she might put on a pretty front when she is with you. But when you go to work, she'll probably get phone calls from old contacts. Back to the drugs, fucking and degenerate life she promised you she would quit.

>>18583797
No idea. That's kind of a big indicator for me. Like if she refuses or doesn't offer to pay for anything the entire night I'll know to give her the flick. I'll go on a few dates and just test the waters.

>>18583802
I'll check it out. Thanks.

>>18583871
I don't know this girl. I don't know what her life is like, that's what I want to find out. But if I find out that she meets these generalisations you've commented then I won't pursue it any further.

>>18583940
It sounds like you've made up your mind.

So tread carefully into this relationship. Invite her to hang out. Dates. Movies. Dinners.

But if you see random "hey i cant tonight something came up", its probably blow or fucking. Just be careful m8

>>18583959
Agreed

Honestly OP, i'm a bit of a naive idiot so I would personally want for this to turn out pure. But I also remember that not everything (ie most things) have a fairy tale happy ending so yeah
Just play it by ear and like i said....
do shit that doesn't really cost money or costs very little see how she reacts

>>18581977

The problem is that the next girl is giving you attention because she wants something in return. Like cats, or children.

What you are missing is that the next girl is much less dangerous than an escort. Next girl can hurt you, damage you on a deeply psychological level, and also financially she can put you on your knees.

But an escort brings you all sort of problems against law, like drugs and bad guys orbiting around her. Even if she quits, she has been doing the worst job on earth for a long time, and her emotional scars won't be something easy to deal with. A hooker isn't exactly an entry level type partner for a relationship.

>>18581923
Well if you invite her at your place it's probably a good deal anyway

>>18583463
More like

>guys does anyone have experience in dating an escort?
>op your hooker is dirty and I know everything about hookers because I'm a kissless virgin

>>18584629
Hi OP, how are you today?

If you date an escort you're quite literally by definition a cuck.

I dated 3 escorts for like 4 month each, if you want to take care about your mental health, just don't do it