Divorce

>>18581366
Why can't you give her what you promised her?

for one, sex. it has been almost a year since we last had sex and i know that she craved for physical intimacy.

i'm not biologically challenged or anything but i just can't find the urge or want anymore and this is somewhat killing her emotionally because in her mind, she feels like she's not being appreciated as much as she was before.

i tried many ways to initiate but i just can't ='(

>>18581369
for one, sex. it has been almost a year since we last had sex and i know that she craved for physical intimacy.

i'm not biologically challenged or anything but i just can't find the urge or want anymore and this is somewhat killing her emotionally because in her mind, she feels like she's not being appreciated as much as she was before.

i tried many ways to initiate but i just can't ='(

>>18581374
Have you tried therapy or meds? Sometimes it's just a mental block. Also, have you tried satisfying her in other ways? Even if you're incapable of performing, you can still tend to her needs (mouth to south and the like).

>>18581380
we are undergoing therapy sessions right now but it doesn't seem to be progressing towards in favor and this is what worries me ='(

she is not craving for sex in the sense of satisfaction but rather for the purposes of emotional satisfaction. she tells me that she needs to know that she is wanted rather than just to be told.

this issue was bought up multiple times already and it seems like there is no solution to it.

she is only 28 and i thought to myself if i set her free now, she will most probably be sad for a year or two (as she has many supportive friends) and she is very pretty thus i have no doubt that she will have many more eligible guys coming for her.

i don't want to drag her down any further but it hurts so much thinking about divorcing her.

i am in a dilemma right now.

>>18581393
>she is not craving for sex in the sense of satisfaction but rather for the purposes of emotional satisfaction. she tells me that she needs to know that she is wanted rather than just to be told.
Being wanted goes beyond just sticking a dick in her, you know. Initiating a massage that ends 2 hours later in her sexual satisfaction via mouth to south (which is literally you giving her pleasure without receiving any yourself) would make her feel wanted, as well.

I'm a big believer of keeping my word. When I said, "Until death do us part," I meant it. Even when my wife and I are having difficulty, I maintain that I'm willing to keep trying for as long as she is.

Get a magic wand, take viagra, and show her you can please her and care for her even without penetration. Youre talking down on yourself way wayyyy too hard. Theres quadrapalegics that are still happily married. Its worth it for the love of your life.

And youre right, if shes pretty shes going to have dicks constantly thrown at her, she will deff find happines. You should worry more about what you can do TODAY.

>>18581406
apparently, my wife isn't like that because if she is then things wouldn't be this difficult for me.

i am also a man of my word and the vows that i said during our marriage, i intend to keep but right now, i know i'm causing her so much pain and grieve.

the least that I know is that she is not happy and i cannot make her happy. I do not wish to yoked her down so that she could live an unhappy life =(

because of this, i have been diagnosed with mild depression by a psychologist.

>>18581366
I bet she's ugly as fuck and you settled cos you couldn't score with anyone else. Loooooooser.

>>18581421
Have you tired asking her what you can do to make her happy that doesn't involve penetration?

>>18581418
maybe i am talking down on myself way more than i should but i just couldn't help feeling like that.

probably it is just me but taking medicines to initiate sex with my wife just isn't natural and on the long term, i fear that she may have the thought that she is no longer pretty in my eyes.

she brought this up before asking why i couldn't get aroused, was it because she is no longer pretty to me. despite a very convincing answer to her, she still ends up crying.

she is very fragile emotionally ='(

>>18581428
she told me that coming back home to me after working makes her happy and makes her feel like she belonged but i know she said that just to make me feel better.

she cries at night ='(

>>18581423
is this the case between your parents? c`mon dude, if you have nothing constructive to say, just fuck off.

>>18581433
Are you saying that you don't respect each other enough to be honest with one another?

>>18581439
we are honest with each other which is why i know that she feels emotionally lacking because we are no longer have sex and i told her i do not know why i cannot be aroused =/

we are undergoing therapy right now to find the root cause but it seems like it is going nowhere.

>>18581437
Calling people ugly is constructive so you fuck off.

>>18581444
Except you just said that you know she is lying to you when you ask how to make things better.

Furthermore, pills can help in the short term, while you seek the root cause.

>>18581451
then i'm sure you are the most constructive person ever existed in human history. asking me to fuck off is perhaps the dumbest thing after your parents decided to give birth to you. it's like walking into someone's house and ask them to fuck off.

gawd damn, you're sad as fuck.

>>18581454
i mean she already knew that i know what's troubling her but sometimes she didn't want to keep on repeating the same thing to me because she knows it will hurt me, so she just gave me her second best answer and hopefully she will be able to convinced herself that, that's that.

apparently,it cannot.

>>18581465
boooooh hooo hoooo im so sad for making trash cry about the reality of their pathetic existence. Go fuck yourself tl;dr.

>>18581474
I didn't ask you to ask her what's bothering her. I asked you to ask her what you could actually do that would make her happy.

If she can only be happy with a good dicking, then she sounds pretty fucking shallow.