Advice needed - Can I continue this relationship?

>>18577642
Our relationship only lasted about a month before shit got kind of weird. She expressed that she thinks we should just be friends, and that she feels horrid for saying that. Her main reasoning for the breakup was:

>She doesn't think we'll work out on a sexual level, we're a bit different when it comes to that

This is partially true. She REALLY enjoys sex and is a huge pervert. She often said very sexual things to me or simply flirted in a sexual context whenever we talked online. I always found it awkward to reciprocate. She was fairly understanding, and any sexual contact we had in person wasn't awkward.

As you might imagine, she's into some pretty kinky shit. She likes very rough sex. She enjoys being very submissive, which goes well with me since I enjoy being dominant. However, the problem for me with all of this is that I'm currently experiencing what I believe to be a flatline due to starting nofap around the time I met her. This means that a lot of my excitement and arousal that I got from masturbation is gone. I still get aroused, just more physically. Meaning, I get erections and hold them, but the feeling of being horny or excited during sex just isn't there right now. The feeling of pleasure just isn't as intense anymore.

>>18577648
>The other reason is that she feels the distance between us would just hinder the relationship. She is recently starting a new career and I'm going to community college and finding a part-time job, which means we'll both be pretty busy.

I'm able to understand this one a lot more. If she feels that the distance and our busy schedules would hinder our relationship advancing, I'm willing to be more understanding of than the former.

The main reason that I brought this up on here is that I've discussed my sex predicament with our mutual friend, and she's basically telling me that this girl has been unfair to me. Basically said she failed me on both a romantic and sexual level, due to her seeming to care more about sex and not being patient with me.

During my last visit to her place, she basically expressed that she didn't feel that I was attracted to her due to not initiating sexual encounters. I received lots of mixed signals from her while I was there, so I thought for a bit that she had lost interest in intimacy with me, so naturally this threw me off.

She also mentioned when she just wanted to be friends that she didn't want things to change and that she still wanted to be in my life. She says she still wants to be close friends, and that maybe in the future we could try things again if we're both ready, but only if I wanted to.

>>18577652
he is currently staying in another state for 2 weeks for job training. Since the night we broke up, I didn't send any messages to her in the following days but she eventually reached out and messaged me, apologizing for us having not talked and that she was really busy. It was a brief message, but our interactions so far have been brief due to her being busy. She genuinely asks how I'm doing and seems like she still has feelings as a friend, and is not just saying it to make the breakup less harsh.

So I ask you, /adv/, what do you think of this whole situation? Is it at all possible or feasible to continue this friendship? I still partially have feelings for her, but I'm obviously willing to be mature and not wait if it doesn't seem that another attempt at a relationship between us will arise. I don't know how to gauge our interactions due to them being really brief and the distance between us.

Sorry for the long read, but it's a really complicated situation. Genuine advice is appreciated. Thanks.

>>18577655
meant to say She is staying in another state, not he.