So I recently started dating a girl who was originally going to return to uni a year from now. Recently she found out she'll be able to head back 4 months from now, in December (for Spring). As a result she asked me if I wanted to keep dating her (I said yes). We then had a long good convo at the coffeeshop and went back. I pointed out "I thought this was going to be a breakup date, honestly" and then she said "Well I don't know if we should get any closer, since it'll make it harder to go through later."
I'm assuming if it was a raw breakup she wouldn't have asked me my thoughts. But her comment at the end, I don't know.
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>>18576987
eee yeah it sounds like shes still thinking about it but without the rest of the conversation its hard to say.
>>18576987
She's half way there.
She doesn't want to marry you. She just wants to fuck you or have you around in case nothing else comes up. I guarantee she'll dump you once someone else comes along.
If you can get back out there, get back out there.
She's not going to wait for you, so you shouldn't wait for her.
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>>18577002
I mean we had a really good convo, she smiled a lot, so it didn't feel like a breakup date. I was expecting things to be pretty curt and to-the-point if it was a breakup.
>>18577006
Yeah I get that, but I mean I myself am starting an internship pretty soon and I'm not anticipating meeting any women during that time period. I'm OK with this being a casual "whatever" dating thing for a few months and breaking it off. At least I think I am...
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>>18576987
I dunno man.
Sounds pretty reasonable to me.
I know youre the one dealing with the emotional side of it and not me so i can say that Pretty easily, but shes right. Could get messy.
>>18577014
I think it's reasonable, I just don't know if it's a breakup or not lol
Doesn't sound like a breakup. It sounds like she's saying keep it casual, this isn't going to become a serious relationship.
>>18577043
>It sounds like she's saying keep it casual, this isn't going to become a serious relationship.
That's the vibe I got as well; like we could keep dating but don't expect it to continue past the point of no-return.