Preffered married people answer but not married people vould

>>18576768
And by they i mean man and woman.

Well that was almost english.

>>18576800
Im sorry its not my first language.

Married anon here.

Some people do cheat. Cheating tends to happen when something about a relationship isn't working, and the person doesn't want to just up and leave. I'm not saying it's right or good, but this is why it happens. Someone is unhappy for some reason or another with their relationship. It might be an issue with their spouse, with their relationship, or with themselves. But people cheat because something is missing.

A loving, trusting, communicative relationship where both partners get what they need and are happy is the ideal marriage. And in a marriage like this, cheating would not happen.

Also, OP, don't base your opinion of reality on porn. It's porn. It's not based in real life, even the sex is unrealistic. It's designed to titillate and to cater to fetishes. Some people have a fetish for being cheated on or seeing their partner have sex with others. The porn you watched is for those people.

It's fiction, not reality. While I'm sure it happens somewhere by someone, just because you saw it in hentai doesn't mean it is guaranteed to happen.

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>>18576840
Well i just wondering about it.what about you ?thinking of cheating?why cant this people just sit and talk with each other if things doesnt work out?why people fuck other people but still doesnt want to let go or talk about their problem?

>>18576854
I haven't thought of cheating. We trust each other and communicate through our problems.

Ideally, people would sit and talk through things. However, some people can't communicate, or feel like they can't, or don;t know how to. Maybe they feel like emotions make them weak. Maybe someone isn't understanding and gets upset whenever their partner shows any kind of emotion. Maybe there's distrust, maybe one of them doesn't feel safe. Maybe one of them has major issues that they need to work on but refuse to admit it's a problem.

The answers are as varied as the people. There's no one reason why people can't or won't communicate. But unless they work to move past that, it's going to cause problems.

And sometimes, people don't do nice things. They may think it's justified, or the right thing to do. but not everybody -wants- to see things from another person's perspective or try to work out a compromise.

Hell, my dad always said "Never compromise. If you don't compromise, at least one person is happy. If you do, then neither of you ends up happy." Take a guess how well his marriage went.

>>18576876
Damn its become evangelion for a second there. thank you for giving me your opinion. Do you think its common of people cheating or nah.

Married here. As it stands we never have and never will spend any time apart, we have the exact same friend group. We have since high school.

There just isn't an opportunity for us to cheat even if we wanted to, which we don't! So it suits me just fine, I count myself in with the lucky crowd.

>>18576896
Hmmm.... I'd say it's not common but also not rare. Somewhere in the middle. You probably know a few people who have cheated, but it's not something almost everybody does.

Not married, with my gf for 9 years though

I never acted towards cheating, but I totally get why someone would feel like doing it, and it have crossed my mind in a few occasions when we had a fight and I have met interests women at the same time period. But as I said, I never even flirted or as much as asked for a phone number.

Personally I wouldn't do it, I'd rather break up or have an open relationship or anything that meant having all cards on the table, prpbably because I have been cheated in the past and know the pain.

I wouldn't say it's common, but it isn't unusual either.

Now why the fuck did it worry you mid fap????

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>>18576920
I dont know senpai.i mean i cum but theres this angry feeling at the page. And i worried as it might happen to me. And i end up asking you guys. Obviously i never have a relationship before.

not married yet, but will be soon

never even got close to cheating, but also never really had the opportunity to
not that I want to, but I can't promise that I will always be able to say no, when I havenever experienced what it takes to do that (maybe it's easy, I really have noidea)
that being said, I try to avoid any situation where cheating could be an opportunity in the first place, so I think I'll be good

as for how common it is, probably a lot less than one might think but more than you hope

if you're having a good relationship though, I don't think you should be worrying about it too much