Friendships

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This is gonna sound fucking stupid, just a heads up. How common is friendships failing after high school? There are people I consider important to me, but they aren't really trying to hang out anymore. Granted, they smoke weed and I no longer do, but I feel kind of hurt by it all. We also have a mutual friend who they see who's a girl I dated and I'm almost positive she has poisoned the well regarding me. These were female friends I felt very close to, and now it seems they've tossed me aside. They're both friends, too, btw. My male friends continue to make efforts to see me and hit me up and see how I'm doing. Why is this? Are female friendships just weaker like that? I genuinely had some tough times in the past few years and I just wanted to talk to them, but they slowly filtered themselves out. Yet they still like stuff like my instagram posts and shit. So they can ignore but like my posts?

I'm thinking of deleting a lot of the people I don't talk to. Is this petty? I just feel like they're kind of trash friends who don't give a fuck for whatever reasons they may have, whether that be my ex making me look like shit or whatever it may be. I'm like extremely close to just saying fuck em and getting them out of my life for good. What you think /adv/? I feel like it's rash and maybe I don't wanna burn bridges but fuck, what are they going to get me? They aren't friends to me, so why should I care?