I am not talking about being a selfish person. I am rather talking about how to focus on your own betterment and love yourself?
I'm a person who always help others more efficiently than myself.
For example: When a friend asks for a help in a college assignment, I do it with utmost efficiency, making it look as good as possible. However when it comes to my assignment, I do it either lazily or not so efficiently. When it comes to marks or grades, the friend's assignment scores more than mine even when 95% of the work in his will be done by me.
Is this a condition? How do I help myself in this? Any kind of advise is widely welcome. Thanks.
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>>18576205
This.
Altruism is a spook.
>>18575982
>For example: When a friend asks for a help in a college assignment, I do it with utmost efficiency, making it look as good as possible. However when it comes to my assignment, I do it either lazily or not so efficiently. When it comes to marks or grades, the friend's assignment scores more than mine even when 95% of the work in his will be done by me.
Don't do other people's assignments
Basically just when someone asks for help do your best to give it but if it's to your own detrement then explain that to them. If they say it's okay then cool but if they kick off about you not helping them they are the selfish ones