Boyfriend into being tied up

So fuck him with a strap on

Nah he doesn't want anything in his ass. I'm 99.99% sure he isn't gay or anything too.

It's the thought of woman using him for his sexual pleasure. When she wants him so much she'll tie him up and use him and get off without him even doing anything.
It's pretty hot if you ask me.

>>18575890
With me it's the exact opposite. I love tying girls up or strapping them down. Taking charge of my girl.

Being tied up is a big turn-off for me, personally.

Each their own.

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Being tied up is the best cause you get to sit there while they're doing whatever they want to you
For you OP an easy way for you also get pleasure from it when he's tied up make him eat you out

It's the loss of power and control over the situation. Not only do people into bondage want to lose control, they want the physical restraints making it so they cannot regain control, as well as be a tactile reminder that they're trapped.

The fantasy is that he doesn't get a say or a choice. That someone else is in control of his body, and even if he resists or pretends he doesn't like it, the person in control knows that he does and knows how to use it. The fantasy is that someone is getting off on him and with his body, be he doesn't get to decide when he receives pleasure or when he orgasms. The fantasy is serving someone who is holding your leash, not just because they hold the leash, but because you want to please them, do a good job, be a good pet.

It's more common than you might think. Society likes to paint men as sexually dominant and women as sexually submissive. And maybe the bulk of men and women do this. However, there's a lot of women who want to be dominant, and a lot of men who want someone else to take charge. Society wants men to play the strong commanding caretaker role. Sometimes men just want to be taken care of, too.

>>18576179
Also, as a femanon who originally thought myself submissive and ended up becoming much more of a dom, I can give you my own perpective and what made me change my mind, if you'd like.