Skinny gf and lack of attraction

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>>18575749
You clearly havent matured yet. I suggest you to stop porn forever
https://yourbrainonporn.com/
and keep fucking her as your only sexual outlet. Sooner or later you will learn how to appreciate het body. Whatever you do, dont marry / have kids until you live together at least for 2 years.

And remember, looks fade with time, personality only gets better. Love her sexy brain, not her average body. I bet you dont look like justin bieber either.

>>18575835
Yeah I'm on that shit now, haven't watched porn for half a month or something and don't plan to be doing it anytime soon either. It just sucks dreaming of my ex's tits when knowing that my current gf is really far from my preference physically.

You have a point about the last paragraph, though I can't get by my vanity when it comes to sexuality. I don't feel horny when I see her body and I feel awkward around it. I'm pretty attractive and I've been able to get with most women I've been interested in. Very, very few have been intelligent enough for me to feel fulfilled intellectually though. She is the only one that I've felt understood by and she challenges me in ways that nobody has before.

I realize I sound pretentious as fuck saying that I feel like nobody has challenged me intellectually before and this is of course only true for the girls I've been involved with

>>18575849
Dont worry about sounding pretentious. I have same experince with girls as you do. At least the part about
>challenged me intellectually
I have long give up finding girl like that. The hard truth is, i am probably below average and clever girls are probably like top 5% so i have no right to get one like that.

And really, try to not break her heart. Some girls even gain boobs and curves with pregnancy. Or with added estrogen like chemicals. How many BMI she got? Until she has like 23, she still can gain some sexy curves.
http://www.calculator.net/bmi-calculator.html

>>18575849

Either that, or you didn't seek the challenge. Everyone has their own kind of intellect. (Well, most do.) As for attraction, bring some fetishes in the bed. Alternatively try lingerie, it can go a long way in hiding the bad and accenting the good.

>>18575871
I feel you. She is probably still about 18 in bmi, think model-thin. So I suppose you're right about the curves

I'm really hoping that I'll be able to stay. If we do break up, I think I'll shut up about why. I couldn't tell her the reason after all this time she has spent struggling to find some way to be good enough for others

>>18575873
True. People meeting the criterias attractive, intelligent, interesting, kind, personality match, matching stages of life, somewhat similar philosophical views and good taste are hard to find though.

Doing the fetish thing actually has worked to some degree with buying toys and doing anal and stuff, but I still put all this pressure on myself to cum in order to show her that I'm attracted to her (for her not to see that I'm not, because if she does she'll leave me, or something) and thus I feel stressed in bed

This is a depressing thread

>>18576064
I suppose it is

what would you have done

I don't know what you want us to say, you're not attracted to her (anymore or were you ever?). Just end the relationship, you'll be able to try satisfy your sexual needs and she will find someone who actually finds her attractive.