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Attracting the wrong people 2017-07-31 11:34:48 Post No. 18575596
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I always seem to attract scumbags. Whether in relationships or with friend groups. I consider myself a decent person, I don't talk behind people's backs or cheat on partners. However all my partners have cheated on me and treated me like shit, and people have told me afterwards that they have a reputation for being a bad person. I'm not desperate for women as I find it easy to get with them. I really don't know what my problem is.
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>>18575596
Have you considered that you might not be attracting shitty people you might just gravitate towards them. If you're consistently only running into assholes you might be setting yourself up for it unconsciously.
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>>18575596
I have heard a theory that when you unconsciously gravitate towards broken people, while consciously not knowing it or even liking it, this means that you prefer broken people over mentally healthy ones, because you feel affinity/kinship with them and believe that either you can "save" them or in some way relate to them.
Maybe it's not the case with you, just putting it out there.
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>>18575601
I have considered that I may subconsciously choose assholes over normal people, want to know how to stop if anyone has been in a similar situation.
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>>18575611
This.
It was totally the care for me for nearly 10 years.
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