I need to lose some people in my life. My group of friends consists of selfish and disturbingly self destructive people. I'm one of the worst, and have mistreated almost everyone.
The only reason we haven't split apart already is because of our collective substance abuse issues and social dependancy. I can't stand to be around them unless I'm drunk or on drugs, and I'm sure that they feel the same to an extent.
I'm sick of hearing about how good the weed is or how cheap the xanax was or how some dude will "totally front me a sheet of acid dude we can make bank." I'm sick of quitting smoking again and again. I just want to do real things again.
Do I force them to let me go by fucking them over beyond repair or should I just fade away?
>>18575502
What I did was I stopped talking to my friends entirely. Like quitting cold turkey. They never asked where I went or what happened so it's a matter of you being able to live without them, because the same might happen to you. Deleting social media will really help if you're that determined.
if you really feel like they're a bad influence on you then leave without saying anything
if you still see some good in somebody from the group let him/her know
slowly cut them off
>anon lets go smoke some crack
>nah senpai i got work to do.
>>18576358
How did you make new friends after that?
This is also what I did >>18576358
I just disappeared and stopped answering texts and calls. I had kinda gotten bored of social media at that point so I just dropped all of it. Didn't delete, just abandoned it. People messaged me and I never even read anything.
The few who I considered my friends knew where I lived, but no one ever came to visit until like 3 years later someone came by. I actually went out to talk to them because it had been so long and so much had happened that I wasn't even that mad anymore, but it still took 3 fucking years. I went AWOL and nobody really gave a shit in the end, they just wanted to annoy me or have me pitch in for weed/alcohol and even then they eventually stopped bothering to contact me for shit like that.
If you truly hate your situation with them just fucking leave. Don't explain yourself, just get out of it all and start anew.
Just ghost them. Stop all communication block or delete your social media.