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I've been working for a while on improving myself. Mostly to appear more attractive to women. I've been working on stuff like hygiene and losing weight, but I want to know if there are any other things to work on that I haven't thought of. I also want to know if there are any ways to help improve my social skills. Also, are there any things women look out for that most men don't know about? I know this is 4chan, but I would prefer you weebs not answer with the usual, "Don't if you do the Jews will get you!" Bullshit.
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>>18574066
FOOD. Seriously... most asswipes here will talk about "confidence" or "game". But a time honored way to get a girl fall for you is offering a free, delicious meal. If you can cook
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>>18574071
Dude. I'm actually really good at cooking. I do it all the time. When you enjoy hunting and fishing, cooking is just kinda expected.
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>>18574066
Acquire a skill that other people find interesting or valuable or useful in some way. Good options would be something like music, painting, cooking, sports, etc. Bad options would be something like figurine collecting, video games, cosplay, or any other useless nerd shit for NEETs.
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You are the one who mentioned Jews on /adv
Also don't date a Jewish woman
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>>18574078
Hell, if you are that good of an outdoorsman, then hiking is also good. Offer her a piece of your life to sample if she likes.
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>>18574071
That's the kill shot, don't offer shit to women for free. It's almost unreal how fast they lose sexual interest cause you're being too nice and giving. Cook for her once and that's it, otherwise she'll want to hang out under the guise of getting free shit
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>>18574088
Yeah, OP don't confuse ADV with those /pol/tards. Those guys are so far up their ass that hey use their heads as pleasure buttplugs.
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>>18574087
So pretty much bullshit I need or have to share with others. God forbid someone isn't well rounded cause they like doing shit fully on their own
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>>18574071
This is actually a really good suggestion. Learning to cook will enable you to prepare healthier, tastier, cheaper and easier meals. You have to eat anyway, so why not learn how to do it properly?

The best way to teach yourself is to get a good cookbook that explains how the recipes work and why you do things a certain way, books like the Food Lab, Ruhlmans 20, Naked Chef etc. There are some good online resources out there but there is also a lot of crap. Avoid meme cooking shows, random youtube videos and generic recipe sites like food.com, a lot of the stuff on there is not good and more food porn than anything else.
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>>18574095
There's a difference between treating someone on a meal because you are interested in them and as a way to get closer, and just being a beta orbitre cuck. I trust OP knows the difference.
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>>18574103
I hope he does
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>>18574099
Pretty much, yeah. Some of this stuff is perfectly workable solo--I'm a musician and most of the time I work on my own; maybe 10% of the time I spend on it is with a band. But the fact that I'm individualistic about it doesn't mean I can't use it to provide value to other people.

But yeah, people relate to you and admire you primarily on the basis of what you can do that interests them. You do the same thing; we all do.
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>>18574066
>Haircut
>New Clothes (Good clothes, NO merch etc.)
>Fix posture if you have bad posture
>Do something interesting with your life. I recommend travelling. Women LOVE to hear about your travel stories
>Work out

As for improving social skills, the only thing you can do is practice. It is a skill after all and the only way to improve a skill is to try it, fail, improve etc.
It's intimidating at first but you'll realize it's not that scary

Can't think of anything else but that should be enough anyway
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Get to enjoy cooking and shopping for food, that will be an invaluable for either seducing women or living on your own: win-win I should think.

Also, work on general social and conversation skills; there are some books and guides on the subject online. Not necessarily PUA shit, just for general life skills. You can throw in the seduction stuff later on once you actually know how to hold a conversation with another person.

Good luck!
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