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I know what the smart move here would be but it's still a hard decision for me!
My "gf" is a very adventureous personality, she's spent the last 10 years living and working all over the world.
I say "gf" because we're not official, we haven't had "the talk" about if we're a couple or if we are just "hanging out+" we are basicly a couple in every way but the label.
Well, so she was recently offered a position in Spain and well: best outcome would be if she didn't accept it and at first she wasn't but over the past 2 weeks she's been leaning more and more towards accepting that offer.
We've discussed it a little bit and the "move with me" has been mentioned: During our time together the thought have Ofc crossed my mind, How could it not knowing that she is this kind of person?
Anyways: I am open towards it but I feel like I have to rush my decision about it.
I knew it was happening sooner or later but I always hoped that I'd get some warning about it and deal with it over some time.
Now I'm stuck with having to make a decision here that I'm not ready to make: I want to go but I know that the smart choice is to let her go.
What do!?
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So she wants you to move to Spain with her? Where are you moving from and what's the job?
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>>18572316
She works as a translator in Spanish, Portuguese, French & Italian.
Currently she's only doing freelancing translations since we live in Sweden: Someone wanting something translated from [insert random combo] here is very rare.
So Yeh, I'd be moving from Sweden.
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>>18572331
if you two aren't even dating yet, and she wants you to move with her, she probably sees you as her mega friend zoned buddy that she hangs out with. she ain't worth it OP. find someone who will make sacrifices for you, not the other way around.
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>>18572298
Rush the decision. Just go.
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>>18572372
I.. Dont think you read what op said nor do you know a thing about women....
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>>18572372
Ehm, we cuddle, kiss, make out and have sex.
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I wouldn't uproot my life for this for a woman I've been dating for years let alone someone who isn't even officially my gf/wife. This is a bad idea, op.
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>>18572298
you post this shit every week, plz go away.
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>>18572298
unless you're willing to drop your attachments and become as adventurous as her, bad move
that said ; dropping your attachments is always a very good move
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