i lost my virginity when i was 15 to someone i liked. i live

no you live in a garbage cuntry. which country is it?

Yes you're a slut. You're used goods and most likely wouldn't be loyal to a man.

>>18571570
>Is having sex once when I feel love make me a slut?
Does that sound like a slut to you? That said, it sounds like you live in a backwards Islamic shithole (don't take this the wrong way, I don't buy into any religion, nor do I hate any religion, but if you look at the impacts of each religion on a country, it becomes obvious which religion is better for humanity as a whole, and Islam is one of the worst).

>>18571574
philippines. my family is well off but extremely strict.

>>18571579
it doesn't sound like a slut but i've always been raised thinking that my body is only to be used by a man after marriage. i still continue to have sex but not very often as it feels wrong. i'm christian but not very religious, my family is though.

>>18571570
>am i a slut /adv/?
that depends
did you have sex with the same.person or with many different ones?
if it was the same, I personally wouldn't have done it, but it certainly doesn't make you a slut.
if you switched partners more or less often, then that sounds slutty to me

>>18571591
If it feels wrong, then why are you doing it?

>>18571579
>*tips fedora*

>>18571570
OP from PH here, i was 23 when i started living with my bf. My bestfriend who is very religious said to me that i have a demon inside me. Well.. let's just say they are fucked up to say that.

Btw, 15 is really young and coming from a well off family and strict parents. Yes they will be disappointed. How many guys did you have sex with? If from diff guys without love then yes u r a slut but if not then u r not. Just practice safe sex lang ha... anyway it's your life and your body.

>>18571570
Yes, 100%. You made the biggest emotional commitment possible to a guy you probably don't speak to anymore.

>>18571574

>yes m'lady, you didn't do anything you pure queen, it was your mean country!!!

White knight detected

>>18571780
>he isn't a fellow /r9k/friend, so he must be a white knight !
Miss us with that gay shit.

>>18571771
So sex without love is the biggest emotional commitment?

>>18571570
Why did anybody have to find out. Your private life is your private life. If anybody asks, don't answer. Or, if you wish, re-virginize yourself. Anyone who asks deseerves a lie.

>>18572019
"It was just sex"

it is disrespectful to your future husband.

All men will just use you for sex. You are not worthy of love.
You did this to yourself. You are a whore. You love sex. so it does not matter.

you can fuck any one.
be a whore.

No you aren't a slut
The people around you are cunts though.

>>18572042
I was just asking because it seemed incredibly silly to assume sex was more of an emotional commitment than love, am not OP
>all those insults
You would never have the guts to say that in person, because that's the type of person that says that stuff online. I doubt you have anything better to do, anyway

>>18572076
you are just a feminist, you just want to fuck around with a lot of different men to "experience life" and "just have fun" before you get old and fat and no man wants to carry the burden of taking care of you for the rest of his life.

>>18572112
I am a virgin but I still don't think there's anything wrong with sex. Are you trolling or is there actually something wrong with your brain?

>>18572140
whats wrong with my brain

Yes you are a slut and nothing will change that. The only people who will be attracted to you are people who are so desperate.

Or move to a country where slut culture is tolerated and everyone is forced to buy into the "my body my choice" bullshit, such as pretty much all of the western world.

>>18571570
People of different countries and cultures define "being a slut" differently. For some, having sex before marriage makes you a slut. In Western culture, having sex with a lot of strangers makes you a slut, while not having sex before marriage is considered "weird".

In the eyes of your (I'm guessing conservative muslim) family and the people in your country, you are a slut. But if you were to move to any Western European country, nobody would care about your sexual history unless it's waaaay off the chart (say prostitution, pornography or gangbangs or something).

>>18571583
where do you live in the philippines ?
Do you have enough money/ a job to keep afloat ?
I'm in the philippines at the moment (cebu city) and I wonder how many girls have these stupid standards imposed onto them

>>18571574
good job making women lonely and miserable for wasting their best years on assholes who only use them for sex. don't believe me look it up online thousands of news articles on bitter single women who hit the wall.