So I've been going to this bar recently and there's a girl there who is all about me. She's a little chubby, which isn't really my thing, and she's gotten to the point of getting catty with other girls I talk to. Admittedly though, I flirt with her and kind of lead her on because I like the attention when I'm drunk.
On the other hand, there's a really cute girl that occasionally comes to the bar, and I've wanted to get to know her, but chickened out when I saw her last. She's my main draw in going to the bar, because I would like to make up for that.
But girl A is always there. It's not a guarantee B will be there. Should I just stop going to the bar and hope I meet her in another context?
Alternatively, should I just give girl A a chance?
>>18570220
bump
do you want to give girl A a chance?
>meeting women at bars
Shiggy doggy
>>18570220
Depends, is there anything that would make A girl worth it besides looks? My gf has a face like a waffle but she's great during sex, she has semi overly caring personality that makes me diamonds. If you know that there is something that are looking for that you might be able to find out. I say give her a chance but only skin deep until you find out.
Maybe it's me but I'd be with a non obese fat girl if she had a good amount of other check marks
>>18570600
There's a small part of me that's open to it... like, I kind of find it adorable that she likes me so much. She's entertaining to be around as long as I shut off the part of my mind that thinks I'm going to end up hurting her feelings.
>>18570602
Let me know when you come up with a better place, because outside of work or the gym, there's nowhere you can talk to someone consistently without interrupting their day.
>>18570619
Girl A at least shares some common interests with me... but I don't know how many. Her banter is on point. She has a very pretty face.
I don't realistically know what I want. I'm kinda in a period of re-discovering that (unrealistically I want to date Taylor Swift).