why do i feel so hard to be sexually arousal with opposite sex?
like if i am go on dates, i feel it hard to touch or holding hands or kissing them if i don't have the time to bond and to comfortable around them.
i think i might asexual, but i do masturbate and watching porn so i don't know what is the problem?
>>18569458
porn skips right to the payoff, without all that bonding and tension part of arousal. it's actually way inferior to getting laid. stop watching so much porn. consider porn a backup.
I've had this problem before for several reasons, including porn. It usually means you just need to warm up with the person and then get into the swing of it. you'll be obsessed with them and cumming too early in no time.
>>18569469
well i need to say that even if I'm off porn for many days, if i was with someone hot and all, i still prefered to do something else other than physical involved. needless to say i can never going through the casual sex thing without feeling gross.
recently i went on 3 dates with this one, liked each other, hit it off. still can't holing hands or kissing. still feeling gross, maybe i need more time to bond with that someone?
>>18569458
>why do i feel so hard to be sexually arousal with opposite sex?
No, it's not the grammar I want to point out here. But maybe there is a reason why you stress "opposite sex".
So either you really ARE asexual, or you need to bond in a different way or you are looking for the wrong people.
>>18569758
Either all of it, I doubt if I am bisexual or homosexual or anything.
I don't really believe in all the crappy thing named asexual demisexual or aromatic.