i want so badly to be a petty bitch

you've been petty enough, and this guy clearly has enough problems, just forget about him at this point. Anything further will just create more problems.

>>18567902
Fuck his best friend

>>18567902
Just move on cunt, stop spending energy on other people that don't bring you benefit. It's not a difficult concept to comprehend...

>>18567902
You seem like you want some kind of jealous revenge..leave the guy alone,get over it.
If you broke up you are done.

You fucking broke up with him and then told him to fuck off when he asked to reconcile. You're fucking stupid and a cunt, you should be in therapy too.

OP here
I'm not saying that I'm looking for revenge or to harass him? I understand that's irrational.

I'm saying that I'm trying to handle my petty emotions and that I'm looking for a progressive way to do so.
Yes, I broke up with him, but it's still saddening to see someone you spent so much time with turn out to be a fraud.
How do I move on and quit being petty. Am already waiting for therapy and have intensely improved my mental health in the past few months. Have even started exercising and have created a proper routine for myself.
And I understand now that maybe I shared too many details but FUCK it hurt to be lied to and I uad to vent somewhere.

Inb4 more "just move on".
baka, if someone told you they were depressed you wouldn't tell them that.
I'm not mentally dying but I'm still mentally ill; this is an advice forum, consider being less toxic.

>>18568942
You haven't written anything that makes him sound like a fraud. You're doing a pretty good job of coming across as a petty bitch, though, so good job with that.

Him getting on Tinder was absolutely fine, literally 100% fine, and the fact that it annoyed you is your problem. Telling people that he broke up with you (when you broke up with him) is similarly nothing. It's a complete non-issue. One dude's attempt to salvage a little dignity after his girlfriend left him. I can understand briefly rolling your eyes at it and maybe bitching to your friends for five minutes about it in private, but getting all worked up about it is ridiculous and childish.

Now, I don't know what other shit he did to you during your relationship, you just vaguely said he "lied a lot" and haven't said anything about why you think that or what these lies were, but going purely off the information in your post, he hasn't done anything wrong, and you're acting like a twat.

>>18568185
this is what I'm trying to do but my mind is hung up on it.

>>18568258
Certified therapist

>>18568265
I comprehend it indeed and I'm trying to do so but my mind is giving difficulty.
Instructions unclear. Dick stuck in fan.

>>18568659
I never told him to fuck off, I was honest with him & we were entirely civil.

Sounds like you're angry/annoyed/mildly unamused that he won the breakup.

Get over it. Not even kidding. He probably didn't even lie about being the one to break up with you, you're getting that information at least second hand and it could have come from something as simple as him telling someone that "we broke up." All that gossip is chinese whispers to the max and whatever you're hearing back is probably only vaguely true.

>>18568953
Go die in a fucking hole if I could smack you in your dumbass face I would

The best thing you can do is continue with your life and ignore him.

My ex is telling everybody that I asked her to marry me, and then cried when she said no, and broke up with her. People will say whatever they can to save their egos.

Just get over it quickly, there is no better way to twist the knife.